So... you didn't tell her to calm down, call her "***** cat," pretend it's a completely platonic play on "KitN," and that its usual meaning never crossed your mind, despite that you consciously circumvented the board auto-censor by adding a special character to the word, accuse her of looking for things to get offended about, and add some acronymic profanity just for fun?

It's still possible, I suppose, that I "see the world in black and white." Which of those things was grey?