For sure, lots of great suggestions. I realize that it is impossible to deliver the definite solution over a forum, but all of the suggestions are very helpful.

Robbie, thanks for the long write up. I did notice when I was out of my saddle climbing that a "disappearing" feeling, it felt like I was on a stair stepper machine or walking up steps.

One thing for sure, I don't think my elbows are bent enough. I set my bike in a trainer today and found a comfortable position to try out for my next ride.

Sorry for the lack of response (I was sleeping), The advice is very much appreciated!

P.S. USAZorro, at about 6'0 190lbs I could stand to lose 15-20 lbs so that does not help.