Yeah, it is definitely a personal decision.

I went with durable because I use my ss/fg for city riding, commuting, and curb/bar(drinky) hopping/falling. I built up WTB Dual Duty XC's to Formula High-Flange hubs. They are pretty bomber.

On my road bike I have CXP-23's laced to Ultegra Hubs and I rarely have to true them, but they are significantly lighter than my WTB's.