the only tubes that I've had a pattern of bad experience with is forte tubes (performance brand). I just use whatever cheapo $3 kenda tube that my local shop sells. But I rarely purchase tubes since I use patch kits and keep reusing tubes as long as possible.

be sure not to pull the pump chuck off at an angle -- just pull straight up when you're done pumping. less risk of damaging the stem.

also, always run your fingers inside of your tire and feel for any debris. run your finger along the inside of the rim for any burs or spokes pushing through. When my tire is back on and inflated, I also look for small pieces of glass and eventually find one or two - I pick them out carefully with a safety pin. if you keep riding on these pieces of glass, they will slowly work they're way through your tire and pop your tube.

and be sure to keep inflation at the proper level -- I pump up every other day and ride every single day. this will reduce or eliminate pinch flats.

partially inflating a tube before putting it into the tire when mounting makes things easier -- reduces the chance of twisting or being caught between the rim and the tire bead.

and be sure to line up tire logos, stem/valve hole -- it will make your life easier.

...that's all I got.