Hey simonw, I don't want to sound rude, but this thread has kind of died, no one really posts here anymore. I just wanted to let you know so that you didn't feel left out when nobody anwsers you. And yeah, what happend to her is lame, but what's done is done, and all you can do is forgive those people and move on. I have no problem whatsoever with who I ride with, female or male, I just like riding and learing from others, and the more people I can ride with the better. I just wish there are more kids in my neiborhood that do BMX, but oh well, you can't have everything.....