Sucks about the troubles you're having, though I have to say you were kinda asking for it by trying to "cancel" a previous order in the comments section of a new order. That's something that needs to be done over the phone, or at the LEAST by email.
I would never expect the people on the other end to pay attention to what you write in the comments section.
Har har.
I had an ongoing email conversation in which I asked them to cancel the order, and just to be safe I added it in the comment section.
and if you really didn't know about nashbar here is a link, you could probably find more just with google or searching bikeforums though
http://austinontwowheels.org/2009/07...raud-possible/