Originally Posted by DataJunkie

I did not want my ex pixel thin.
I wanted her healthy and without all the physical aliments that afflicted her. Engaging in family activities besides watching the tv would have been a plus.
I will never have a model perfect SO and neither do I want one.
A healthy well adjusted woman is all I ask for. It does not even have to be cycling.
Hiking, walking, riding a horse, running, swimming, etc... whatever makes her happy. My ex was not happy. End of story.