Dude.. I never said I wanted a super model.. or even an average model.. All I've said is that I want a reasonable facsimile of the woman I started dating two years ago.. I really don't think that's too much to ask. I'm the exact same weight I was two years ago. I can wear the same clothes I was wearing when we first started dating. The only thing that changes on me is the size of my quads and the size of my biceps, which varies based on season and chosen form of exercise, not by the number of nacho supremes I've eaten this week. I *want* to maintain my fitness, PLUS I have a strong desire to be attractive to my mate. I merely want the same consideration in return.