ElTwitcho,

Well, it appears we are both hyper-generalizing. But, I must admit that I do not give everyone the same autonomy and "totally disconnected from the world around me" feelings that you do. I believe that the vast majority of people make statements with their appearance. They are consciously and purposefully sending messages. There are exceptions. We're talking about human beings. Of course there are exceptions. As long as tattoos are not grossly offensive (say racial slurs or outrageous vulgarities) I have no issue with them unless they are below the wrist line or above the collar line. Then, I believe people have made personal decisions that negatively affect them. Again, a very small minority exist. But for example, if you decide to get a neck tattoo then please be very sure you are exceptional at what you do because a price will be paid. That's reality. Same goes for tattoos below the wrist line and anything done to your face. Your face and hands are who you are. Study after study has proven this - yes, we actually look and make judgments about people by their hands. The face is a given. So, if you alter these things in unnatural ways the overwhelming reaction from society as a whole will be negative. Tattoos like say full sleeves are largely taken in stride but they do impart an "outside of the norm" feel. This is intentionally done by the vast majority.

I don't buy the hyper individualism for a second. And again - in the vast majority. Why? Well, let's see. Do you have any idea how many hyper-individualists I've seen with the exact same tattoos and the same types of facial piercings? Very "Lone Wolf" behavior. Give me a break.

You know, I teach my kids to stand tall as individuals. To question the norm. To ask why. Believe me when I tell you there are days my 15 year old pushes those limits. But, I also teach them that true individualism is an inside job. The moment you do what others are doing you are by definition participating in herd behavior. The herd ain't a bad place to be. You can change the herd by being a person of true individualism. You will stand tall and the mirror will always reflect a true man or woman.

Ghandi was an individual but to look at him he was just another old, skinny cat walking down the street. He changed 2 countries.