I think we have to sometimes ignore what people say inadvertantly to us not realizing it could affect us if we allow it.For instance i remember sometime in my early fifties cops,bank tellers etc. when i had something to do with them started calling me sir.Now im in my sixties and just the other day i had to renew my truck driving liscense(has to be done yearly including medical here)you get paper temporary till new plastic" identity theft proof" one comes by mail.Got it today and was reading my discription which used to read blue eyes ,brown hair, now some one took it upon them selves to change it to grey hair.Ive never really given my hair color much thought till i read that.Just small stuff like that, one has to ignore.A person doesnt want to dwell on it or one will start believing one is old.I dont feel old,thats what counts.