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This whole thread is such a load of crap on so many levels.
IMHO the vast majority of posters here ignore several basic, vital points:
1) Men are genetically programmed to notice physical attributes in women. Period. Get over it. Get used to it. It ain't going away.
2) Women are genetically programmed to notice physical attributes in men. They are. Is that a revelation?
3) Women who deny #2 are full of ****.
I work as a network consultant. I have about 30 clients and visit 2-4 a day, 12-15 a week.
I see more Brad Pitt, Gerard Butler, George Clooney, etc. pictures displayed on the desks and cubicle walls of women than I do any pictures of similar beautiful women in, on, or around men's workspaces.
Why is that?
1) Women are just as attracted to handsome, chiseled men as men are to beautiful, curvaceous women.
2) If men display such stuff they are automatically branded pigs, chauvinists, whatever. Women aren't. For women it's just "cute". Men can't risk the branding.
A few sites for your viewing pleasure that illustrate the point:
http://www.gerardbutlergals.com
http://bradpittfan.com/
http://www.clooneyunlimited.com/
Do you think the women who run these sites would be doing so if all these guys looked like Marty Feldman? Hmmm...I couldn't find a slobbering-all-over-you Marty Feldman fan site anywhere.
So for all you women who try to be offended when one of the guys says "was she hot?"...get over yourselves. Behind closed doors the vast majority of you are as bad or worse.
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