Reading this thread is like watching the last three episodes of the Batchelor: the outcome makes little difference but you get emotionally invested enough to want to see how it turns out anyway.
But let's face it, with the exception of me (who learned just a tremendous amount from Dr Pete and trigger, things that had been up to this point beyond my cognition), the strong sensitive men who are nearly perfect in every way will stay that way, the pigs will wallow in their own poop, the the ones who go through live thinking things aren't fair because they are women; gay; black; Republican; Christian; Martian will remain aggrieved forever and probably wouldn't have it any other way.
Did Brandy Chastain cheapen the sport or flaunt her sexuality when she ripped off her jersey and ran around in her sports bra? I'm not aware of any man having forced her to do that.