There are also concussions that occur for reasons other than direct impact. In these cases, a helmet is not likely to help you no matter how well it's constructed. I'll still assert that if the fall was in fact "slight" that this couldn't have happened.
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Rotational force is key in concussion. Punches in boxing deliver more rotational force to the head than impacts in sports such as American football, and boxing carries a higher risk of concussion than football"
As for whether I would be dead or not if I hadn't been wearing a helmet, no one including me, can ever prove that. I can only say that, upon examining my helmets after both events, I was glad that I was wearing one.
I also know that I rode like a lunatic as a teenager, and the thought of wearing a helmet never crossed my mind; I'm not even sure they were available back then. If you've ever been to Europe, you'll see many more people riding bikes without helmets than with them. Do what you want.