ebay is great, isn't it?
It all depends on one's mind set... figure out the most you are willing to pay for something and place a bid at that amount. If someone is willing to pay more, let it be. Think of it as that someone saved you from a costly mistake, potentially. It's all good, less than spilled milk, nothing to cry about (and last time I checked, that highly touted - in another thread - "rare" '55 Paramount frame restored by Jesus himself (or something like this), still has no bids; that should be a decent replacement of a really holy grail)....