So, I had a driver run me off the road...
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I restructured your very well written story of the events. I hope you don't mind. Here are my thoughts:
You were riding in a busy road, much slower than the traffic using the road. That is wrong... don't do that.
You got yelled at by one of the motorist (yelling is NOT rage). That is because you messed up. Don't take it so personal.
Stop thinking so much about what could or might happen in the future and start taking care of what needs to be done in the present.
Ride the roads. Get yourself over when traffic approach's or at lease when the two-way traffic (and you) causes congestion. You will make mistakes! When people call you out for you mistakes.... apologize (like Mom taught you). Forget defending yourself from imaginary threats that might happen in the future. Pay attention to what you're doing... in the moment your doing it.
Enjoy your rides! Be polite to the people in cars. Wave at other cyclists. Eat an ice cream cone.
I am a big Unvega fan myself. You should post pictures of your Univega Nuovo Sport.
You were riding in a busy road, much slower than the traffic using the road. That is wrong... don't do that.
You got yelled at by one of the motorist (yelling is NOT rage). That is because you messed up. Don't take it so personal.
Stop thinking so much about what could or might happen in the future and start taking care of what needs to be done in the present.
Ride the roads. Get yourself over when traffic approach's or at lease when the two-way traffic (and you) causes congestion. You will make mistakes! When people call you out for you mistakes.... apologize (like Mom taught you). Forget defending yourself from imaginary threats that might happen in the future. Pay attention to what you're doing... in the moment your doing it.
Enjoy your rides! Be polite to the people in cars. Wave at other cyclists. Eat an ice cream cone.
I am a big Unvega fan myself. You should post pictures of your Univega Nuovo Sport.
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If anyone is interested in where I was...https://www.google.com/maps/@32.7690.../data=!3m1!1e3 it happened about 1-2 miles south of County Road 322
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@Flyboy718 Geez that seems remote.
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I live in SE Texas outside of Houston in a very 'redneck'/'good ole boy' area and I work for the local municipality and their police force on a very personal role with admin staff as a network engineer/admin. I have had beers at county fairs with these same officers (SGTs/LTs/Dep Chief) so I know a few of them very well. Ever since I started cycling in this area that has a very active fitness/IronMan cycling population that seems to push buttons with locals, I asked them about basically how to handle these situations. I can tell all of you now, that in this area of Texas, the police are NOT on your side and have ZERO interest in pursing the reporting of such crimes. They have all said to me "well, sounds like you should get off that hippy machine and try something different".
This attitude seems to be growing where I live and the prominence of jacked up, rollin' coal, whitetrash/oilfield trash (hey, they put the self proclaiming stickers on the back! just repeating what I see) trucks that are out to prove their point "dont tread on me"/"come and take it" style, is steadily rising as well.
I have made serious considerations of leaving this state but I guess you get these stories everywhere.
I also have considered getting my CHL and carrying on my rides. Sad Sad world.
However, I stick to roads with a ridable shoulder and I drive them first to verify the chipseal integrity. I do NOT push my bike rights on these ignorant *****. I also still refuse to let this crap get to me deep down. I think about the absurdity of riding concealed and I just shake it off and go for a ride.
May you never have this experience again my fellow Texas rider! Keep your head up and feet clipped in, its all we can do.
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I just remembered, I had a good friend push his 'bike rights' in some traffic in the woodlands area. 3 oilfield bros jumped out of a truck in 5pm traffic and beat him into a hospital trip. Cops never cared and didnt pursue it even though a friend and I found them via custom scripting ripping through a DMV site we paid access to, looking for a white dodge with last 3 of plates. Cops still didnt care. Stay SAFE!
This attitude seems to be growing where I live and the prominence of jacked up, rollin' coal, whitetrash/oilfield trash (hey, they put the self proclaiming stickers on the back! just repeating what I see) trucks that are out to prove their point "dont tread on me"/"come and take it" style, is steadily rising as well.
I have made serious considerations of leaving this state but I guess you get these stories everywhere.
I also have considered getting my CHL and carrying on my rides. Sad Sad world.
However, I stick to roads with a ridable shoulder and I drive them first to verify the chipseal integrity. I do NOT push my bike rights on these ignorant *****. I also still refuse to let this crap get to me deep down. I think about the absurdity of riding concealed and I just shake it off and go for a ride.
May you never have this experience again my fellow Texas rider! Keep your head up and feet clipped in, its all we can do.
***edit***
I just remembered, I had a good friend push his 'bike rights' in some traffic in the woodlands area. 3 oilfield bros jumped out of a truck in 5pm traffic and beat him into a hospital trip. Cops never cared and didnt pursue it even though a friend and I found them via custom scripting ripping through a DMV site we paid access to, looking for a white dodge with last 3 of plates. Cops still didnt care. Stay SAFE!
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If anyone is interested in where I was...https://www.google.com/maps/@32.7690.../data=!3m1!1e3 it happened about 1-2 miles south of County Road 322
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Hey. Don't make fun of the OP! I am sure he was riding the best he could. Open roads aren't for everyone. As cycling isn't for everyone.
Or hire an armed guard to follow him around?!?!?!? Give me a break. He caused a back-up and a guy yelled at him... not a big deal.
Or hire an armed guard to follow him around?!?!?!? Give me a break. He caused a back-up and a guy yelled at him... not a big deal.
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The things I cited in my original post are backed up by precedent. You're "word of mouth" and "stereotypical" response is equivalent to the driver's. The uniform vehicle code is uniform across states with minor variations to accommodate regional differences. Please reread my post, and then take a look at Mionske's website and book.
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Really?
NOT true. Re-read the post. The cars opposite passed only because the motorist in questioned allowed them to.
What truck?!?!?!? Re-read the post.
The motorist in question DID NOT get out... he only opened his door (I know what you're thinking.... so how did the OP know how big he was...huh????). Braking and swearing (exercising free speech) is legal everywhere. No crime was committed.
I have seen conflict. More than you might imagine. I didn't read any from the OP.... and neither did you.
NOT true. Re-read the post. The cars opposite passed only because the motorist in questioned allowed them to.
I have seen conflict. More than you might imagine. I didn't read any from the OP.... and neither did you.
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The cars opposite direction pass and he is still behind me taunting me and blowing horn. The car behind him goes around him and passes.
I have neither time nor interest in going over every point with you, this should be enough to make my point.
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Yes, yes, yes. Within his rights.... fully allowed to act poorly and then be fearful of the people he ticks off.
The OP was cycling for sport! If he can't enjoy the sport for what it is.... this is softball season! He should be having fun. If bicycling isn't a bushel basket full of fun...... you're doing it all wrong.
The OP was cycling for sport! If he can't enjoy the sport for what it is.... this is softball season! He should be having fun. If bicycling isn't a bushel basket full of fun...... you're doing it all wrong.
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We agreed to disagree (would be my guess)... he stopped yelling. Soon he sped out and around me. This was (as was likely the OP's) a normal road conflict. Nothing to get all upset about. We don't need to have police show-up everywhere we ride, wear cameras on our bikes, or take along a lawyer on every group ride. People need to learn how to have fun.
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So why didn't you mention that I was a minority in the post? Is that why you got so scared when I yelled Gee Golly son... some of need to get home?!?!?!?
Look this is simple! I love cycling. I know it isn't for everyone. But other people's irrational fears of sharing the road doesn't need to mess up the good times for everyone else. Why in God's name would anyone be afraid of a man that didn't even get out of his car? Heck... you're riding a 63cm bike! How big was that guy that never stood up?!?!?!?!?
Look this is simple! I love cycling. I know it isn't for everyone. But other people's irrational fears of sharing the road doesn't need to mess up the good times for everyone else. Why in God's name would anyone be afraid of a man that didn't even get out of his car? Heck... you're riding a 63cm bike! How big was that guy that never stood up?!?!?!?!?
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Heck, if you think that's bad, a few months ago while crossing a street in SF, a guy on his bike almost hit me while I was crossing the street when he did not want to bother to obey the stop sign at the crosswalk....
I yelled at him to watch it and the jerk had the nerve to shout back "You watch it!". Dang I never was so mad at a fellow cyclist in my life. I had to hold myself back from chasing after the jerk and slamming him and his bike to the ground!
Sure lots of urban riders tend to develop an attitude trying to avoid killer drivers on the streets, but it sure is screwy when cyclists start putting on the nasty attitude towards pedestrians.
Maybe some of those victimized pedestrian lose respect for cyclists and end up hunting other cyclists on the road when they get in their cars.....
So be respectful of pedestrians when you're cycling as we reap what we sow....
I yelled at him to watch it and the jerk had the nerve to shout back "You watch it!". Dang I never was so mad at a fellow cyclist in my life. I had to hold myself back from chasing after the jerk and slamming him and his bike to the ground!
Sure lots of urban riders tend to develop an attitude trying to avoid killer drivers on the streets, but it sure is screwy when cyclists start putting on the nasty attitude towards pedestrians.
Maybe some of those victimized pedestrian lose respect for cyclists and end up hunting other cyclists on the road when they get in their cars.....
So be respectful of pedestrians when you're cycling as we reap what we sow....
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Road rage is aggressive or angry behavior by a driver of an automobile or other road vehicle. Such behavior might include rude gestures, verbal insults, deliberately driving in an unsafe or threatening manner, or making threats.
He then zooms ahead of me almost hitting me with his mirror and then slams on his brake's and I almost plow into his bumper at about 18 mph. I am on the brakes and hitting the grass and he gets his wheels off in the grass and stops and I see his door open. He is yelling at the top of his lungs crazy obscenity and body language. "One foot is all you have to get over!" He yells, mixed with twice as many expletives.
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Yes, yes, yes. Within his rights.... fully allowed to act poorly and then be fearful of the people he ticks off.
The OP was cycling for sport! If he can't enjoy the sport for what it is.... this is softball season! He should be having fun. If bicycling isn't a bushel basket full of fun...... you're doing it all wrong.
The OP was cycling for sport! If he can't enjoy the sport for what it is.... this is softball season! He should be having fun. If bicycling isn't a bushel basket full of fun...... you're doing it all wrong.
Weighing the potential consequences of being hit against delaying Bubba by 10-15 seconds, the safe choice is to do what the OP did. I think that most of us recognize that there are going to be motorists who don't understand the reasoning behind our actions, and aren't going to let it phase us if we get a rude comment in passing - but the motorist was the ass who instigated the confrontation.
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