Advice from the police after getting buzzed.
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I know this is a tangent off of the thread's topic, but Dave's comment is spot on, and I wish it was an awareness shared by more people. People everywhere (and especially posters on bf) are constantly offended by things that happen to them, when in reality the offensive actions in question had nothing to do with them.
I realize the fact that the incident I describe being located on a section of a street that is between a grade school and a public park is not important to those that are only concerned with their momentary pleasure(s), but I think that most of us would agree that doing something that would reduce the chances of a child getting hurt while bicycling there in the future is worth doing. And I realize that I omitted the fact that the park in question is the location of the kids bike helmet give-a-way I've organized and ran for the last 9 years and that some may not draw any connection with the site for bicycling advocacy for kids and what happened earlier, but I would have felt even worse if this same driver came back and hit someone else's child because I didn't do anything.
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Where did I post that I was (or am ever) unarmed?!?!?
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Well you're kind of right, and like Dave, you're missing the concepts of right/wrong as well as the future implications of your actions/inactions........................... but I would have felt even worse if this same driver came back and hit someone else's child because I didn't do anything.
. Of course we all grow up and our imaginations are beaten down by adult pragmatic and logical thought processes.
But that doesn't mean many of us can't still rationalize just about any action into something acceptable. Your actions, the police's actions, the courts actions.... do NOT control the actions of others. All drivers have free will to be total butt-hats... and no body can change that.
It is fine with me if you wish to report every legal (or imaginary) traffic infraction you might see (or think you see).... everyday for the rest of your life. But it will jade your view of cycling and it will ruin your rides. After that happens... you may want to think about why you did that to yourself.
Last edited by Dave Cutter; 09-01-16 at 07:48 PM.
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