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Old 08-25-11, 07:40 PM
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uummmm, whatcha wanna bet Elizabethton, Tenn has no such thing as "Internal Affairs"?
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uummmm, whatcha wanna bet Elizabethton, Tenn has no such thing as "Internal Affairs"?
LOL, you could be right. However, I think every LED has to have some sort of IA.
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Well, in my small town, the school district does not allow any student in middle school or lower to ride a bicycle to school. Now, if the policeman was just acting on behalf of your school, then you probably need to discuss the issue with the school also. Probably wouldn't hurt to call the policemen's supervisor either. But don't be too harsh, he was looking out for your daughter's safety, although over-protective.
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Originally Posted by genec
Just out of curiosity, how many of us rode bikes to school at age 10? I know I did. I was also on the safety patrol. And no, we did not have an adult also on "my corner."
So did I. It was either bike, walk, or bus. Very few kids actually got dropped off by their parents. Today, it's a traffic zoo at the schools with literally over 200 cars waiting in line to pick up their kids. It's so bad around here, there's a stigma for kids who take the bus to school. How things have changed.
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I'm not trying to start an argument. But after looking at google street view for the elementary school in that area, the cop had the right to be concerned. No shoulder, no sidewalk, narrow street that you know it very crowded when school is letting out.

https://maps.google.com/maps?q=elizab...,70.18,,0,4.91
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Originally Posted by BikeMomTn
in his judgement it was unsafe for her to
walk or ride her bike to school
I just re-read the OP. This above qoute means it is not a bike related problem. It's about being unsupervised.

Walk or ride.
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Give the officer a copy of the book Free Range Kids
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Originally Posted by billdsd
I didn't notice anything about him being worried about abduction. It sounded entirely like he is one of those clueless idiots who thinks that bicycles are dangerous.
You would not know this if it was the case because you were not present for the conversation. Although I would say we have a good account of what was said, it is after all one view point.

I have stated that if I was in the place of the officer, it would be what I would be thinking. I see a young girl bicycling around alone. I would look for parents. If no parental figure is around, I would inquire as to why. Child supervision is a a part of child safety, and I am guessing that is why she was given a ride hope and 'talked' to the parents.

Further clarification on this point is made by 2manybikes's observational skills;
Originally Posted by BikeMomTn
although no law was broken in his judgement it was unsafe for her to walk or ride her bike to school
I would say that his judgement/opinion is valid, but then again I do live in a big urban city that would probably have a bunch of people ready to snatch up an unsupervised child.
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Originally Posted by 8Fishes
I would say that his judgement/opinion is valid, but then again I do live in a big urban city that would probably have a bunch of people ready to snatch up an unsupervised child.
Most abductions, of course, are by known persons. City/country has little to do with it.
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That cop definitely had no right or business to threaten you and your daughter that way. It looks as if this cop wanted to stir up some trouble cause he was bored and wanted something to do. I would definitely report him to his superiors so that they can reprimand him for doing this. You can even press charges against him if you want.
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You should talk to a bike friendly bike lawyer, if you have one, and add a reasoned legal opinion to your personal opinion of safety when drafting your letter/complaint to the chief and mayor or whoever the chief's boss is. To me, a kid getting picked up by a cop is scarier than riding to school... humiliation in front of friends... being ordered around by a cop... Getting a lawyer to write part of the letter outlining the legal issues of riding AND the legal issue of the unauthorized intrusion into your life, might get their attention...
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Originally Posted by lostarchitect
Most abductions, of course, are by known persons. City/country has little to do with it.
Yes, but saying that is very misleading. This applies when the child is abducted. It will generate leads that police should be looking to immediately, but the chances of being abducted in the first place can be minimized. This is what the officer is trying to do. I don't personally agree with the way he approached it, as I do believe as parents you have the right to raise your children as you see fit. He is just probably looking after his own interests, and not wanting to work an abduction case if it ever were to happen. I am sure he's just fine sitting in his cruiser by the school and watching the children as they go by.

What are the statistics of a child being abducted while being supervised vs or not supervised? I'm willing to bet the chances are way higher unsupervised.

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I also have to add, that after seeing BikeLawyer's post I would say that these days, it's a game of liability. The officer probably just wanted to go on 'record' that he 'warned the parents' to not let the child go unsupervised. This probably isn't going to go any further than this. If anything were to happen and he did not do this, it would make the PD look 'bad' because 'they aren't doing there job'. Now that there is probably a file on record the PD can spin this in say that they have made efforts to warn parents of situations that would put children in danger, and they 'do there best' and infer that parents make poor choices if anything were to happen.

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Since when do we imprison the innocent to protect them from the possibility of criminals coming after them? Tell the cop that he's welcome to patrol the streets during her commute.
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Originally Posted by BikeMomTn
Wow, it's been a long time since I posted on the forums! I am in desperate need of help though (and some need to vent!). Today my 10 year old daughter gets brought home by a police officer stating it is his 'judgement' that it is unsafe for my daughter to ride her bike to school and home again. During my conversation with the officer I learned she was obeying all designated laws (federal and local), her helmet was securely fastened and properly fitting, she was not riding in an unsafe manner, nor breaking any law. He informed me that if I continued to allow her there would be "problems". He explained to me that part of his job is public safely, and again in his opinion her riding her bicycle to school and home is "unsafe"; further stating that she has a bus available to ride, she needs to utilize it. If she was 14 or 15 it would be a different story of course (his opinion).

Humorously he requested my presence at the curb without asking if the children were old enough to be left unattended inside the house (sure public safety). At this point I told him I am well aware of the bicycle laws in the state of Tennessee for children under 40 inches/40 pounds, children under the age of 12 and adult cyclist. He (politely might I add) explained to me that although no law was broken in his judgement it was unsafe for her to walk or ride her bike to school and will be filing a report with child protection services for my decision to allow her. I really felt like he was...threatening me with child protective services if I didn't follow his directive.

First of all I don't believe there is a blanket age when a child is able to ride their bike to school and environment does play some role. I live in a very small rural town and her ride home does not entail any major intersection crossings. The intersection at the school is heavily trafficked however she dismounts and walks her bicycle across the street. I do not allow her to ride when it is dark for her ride either to or from school nor do I allow her to ride in inclement weather conditions (fog, rain, snow, extreme cold, etc.).

Before allowing her to even begin riding, we put her through a bicycle safety course, proper hand signal usage and rode the route she is to take with her numerous times to ensure she was able and respectful of road conditions. She makes excellent eye contact with drivers and (for a 10 year old) rides very defensively. She has been riding since age 3 and has grow up in an active cycle family so a great deal of this she takes as second nature.

I told the officer he is welcome to call child protective services, but it is my judgement as her mother that she is responsible enough and able to ride her bike the 1 mile to and from school that I have taken all safety precautions possible to ensure her safety. Additionally, I have called and left a message with his supervisor because as I previously said I feel I am being threatened with child protective services if I don't just say "yes officer, of course your right".

I would love some suggestions/comments on this please. My goal is to prevent other parents in my area from going through this also. I have made contact with safe routes to school in an attempt to establish a program for the school my children attend. What other options do I have?
Did he give a reason why he thought it was "unsafe" for your daughter to ride her bike to and from school? What was the outcome when you called the police depart to complain about the officer in question?

You should have asked him if he was willing to pay the doctor bills if your daughter became obese and developed diabetes because he thought it was "unsafe" for her to ride her bike to and from school.
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Originally Posted by genec
Just out of curiosity, how many of us rode bikes to school at age 10? I know I did. I was also on the safety patrol. And no, we did not have an adult also on "my corner."

My neighbor had a paper route at about the same age. Do these even exist any more? I rode the route with him a couple of times... lots of early morning work for "just a kid."

9 years old was "the magic age" in my family... at 9, (4th grade) you got a bike.
I think that most "paper routes" are now covered by adults in cars.
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Originally Posted by 2manybikes
It depends on what the cop percieved as "unsafe". It also depends on the environment surrounding the ride. I did not let my kids ride unsupervised at age 10. It depends also on the child. 10 seems too young to me. Not because it was a bike ride, just the time spent alone. But my environment is probably more urban than what you describe. When they were 10 I was along for the ride.
Ask for more details from the police. If the cop was really going to call child protective services, there may be something you don't know about. An accident, an abduction, bullies, who knows? Maybe the cop has seen a lot of scary things that cause him to be that protective.
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I have to say that if I were the officer's shoes, my motives would be to see that your daughter was supervised so she wouldn't be kidnapped.

Kidnappings blow, and would probably involve a lot of time from the PD, and I suppose he was thinking if it can be prevented, all the better. Hence his recommendation for her to take the bus, where she would be supervised. His approach was wrong in the fact that he called her and your parenting out about bicycling, and should have just addressed the sidestepped; her safety for being kidnapped, and trying to cover it up by asserting she can be ran over by a bad motorist while biking.
Just how many children are kidnapped by strangers? Hasn't the law enforcement community proved that most abductions are committed by non-custodial parents?

Y'all do know that there have been plenty of children who have grown up in large cities such as NYC, Chicago, LA and have ridden the subway at "early" ages with nothing bad ever happening to them. Today's kids are overprotected if you ask me.

When you have your have your sit down with the chef, etc. point out that by the officer putting your daughter into his car to drive her home opened him to the possibility of being accused of "improper" conduct.
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Originally Posted by billdsd
I didn't notice anything about him being worried about abduction. It sounded entirely like he is one of those clueless idiots who thinks that bicycles are dangerous.

FWIW, most child abductions are by family members or other people that the child knows, not strangers. They are certainly scary but "abducted by strangers" is fortunately relatively rare. Our society has become far too paranoid and far too focused on unusual events.
Agreed, which is why when they do happen they make the news and has "everyone" wringing their hands wondering how this could have happened. When I was a kid I used to go bike riding all the time by myself, I also used to go swimming/tubing down and up the Wappengers creek. Hell probably at least half of the stuff that a lot of us here did as kids would get today's parents investigated.

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"I appreciate your concern and for bringing what you felt was an issue to my attention. However, neither her or I was acting in an unsafe manner or breaking any laws. I'll be glad to tell CPS the same thing. I'd also appreciate if you no longer pull my daughter over unless she is acting in an unsafe manner or breaking a law. I appreciate your opinion, but it isn't the law, and I'm going to go ahead and continue as I have been, since it is legal and I feel the best way to raise my daughter. Thanks."

Was what came to mind at first, but I probably would have been a lot more pissed . I'd obviously recommend a talk with a higher-up about your concern of threats and him stretching his judgment too far. Might not hurt to also make mention of this to your local representative, and possibly the local paper. They like sensationalist headlines, especially involving institutional silliness. I think "10 year-old detained for riding bike to school" makes a good headline.
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Originally Posted by genec
Just out of curiosity, how many of us rode bikes to school at age 10? I know I did. I was also on the safety patrol. And no, we did not have an adult also on "my corner."

My neighbor had a paper route at about the same age. Do these even exist any more? I rode the route with him a couple of times... lots of early morning work for "just a kid."

9 years old was "the magic age" in my family... at 9, (4th grade) you got a bike.
If I missed the bus, I had to ride a freaking HORSE to school. And explain why I missed my first two classes doing so. Ok, not 10, but, lessee... 13.

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As a UK officer, I'd only make this sort of call if I'd just seen your child riding in a manner likely to cause an accident. He stated himself this wasn't the case, so I can't really see that being the issue.

I'd therefore assume his problem is the 10 year old travelling to school unsupervised, rather than the cycling aspect. This is further backed up by his quote of "it'd be different if she was 14 or 15". We are therefore into the realms of grey area of what age a child can go to school unsupervised. There is no age prescribed in UK law for this, its a (wait for it) judgement call!

The officers given you his advice. My advice to you would be to do as you have, and make your own informed choice. You certainly don't come across as an uncaring mother, and won't have a thing to worry about when it comes to Child Protective Services.

Lastly, it may not have been meant to be a threat about CPS. If its the same over there as it is in the UK, its probably arse-covering rules that mean he HAS to put a report in, purely to avoid any comeback on the police if something did happen later. I can promise you I've had to put plenty of reports into our version of CPS, Social Services where I've stressed that its a loving/caring family with no issues etc. Pure paperwork exercise.

So if I were you, I'd simply thank the officer for his concern, acknowledge it, but explain your views as you did above, then forget about the whole incident.
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Originally Posted by 8Fishes
I have to say that if I were the officer's shoes, my motives would be to see that your daughter was supervised so she wouldn't be kidnapped.

Kidnappings blow, and would probably involve a lot of time from the PD, and I suppose he was thinking if it can be prevented, all the better. Hence his recommendation for her to take the bus, where she would be supervised. His approach was wrong in the fact that he called her and your parenting out about bicycling, and should have just addressed the sidestepped; her safety for being kidnapped, and trying to cover it up by asserting she can be ran over by a bad motorist while biking.
If the OP is an oil baron, a hedge fund manager or a dot-com billionaire then their kid is an obvious target. If they are an average mother living an average life then their child is no more likely to be abducted riding their bike than they are playing in the school field or going round to see a friend.

Perhaps the key question here is what age does a child have to have attained before being outside without a parent watching over them is considered a safe thing. Let's face it, if two or three heavy guys wanted to kidnap an average adult from their bike they could probably do it.
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Originally Posted by 8Fishes
I have stated that if I was in the place of the officer, it would be what I would be thinking. I see a young girl bicycling around alone. I would look for parents. If no parental figure is around, I would inquire as to why. Child supervision is a a part of child safety, and I am guessing that is why she was given a ride hope and 'talked' to the parents.
Another part of letting children grow up is slowly loosening the reins. Where I grew up there was a cycling proficiency test and it was universally accepted that once a child had passed the test they were free to ride to school. The test was aimed at children aged about 6-10.

The simple fact is that it's unrealistic to expect parents to watch over their children like hawks 24/7. Sooner or later kids need to spread their wings, and part of growing up is letting them spread their wings a little at a time.

If a policeman believes something is unsafe but a parent believes it is safe, whose opinion takes precedence? Do we really want to create a society where things are prohibited just because one person in a uniform thinks it might be dangerous?
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Originally Posted by myrridin
Welcome to the world that comes with "It takes a village to raise a child..."

Makes one nostalgic for the old days when children were considered the "property" of their parents who could treat them as they wished...
I never "wax nostalgic" about when people were considered "property"... That sort of thing led to pregnant teens being forced into insane asylums, lobotomies on children, neglect and abuse, sexual abuse, and myriad other problems.

Originally Posted by gcottay
Since you live in a small town you might want to sit down with the chief of police for a friendly conversation. One of his or her officers seems to be very close to the deep end.
I second this one. Small towns tend to be able to take care of issues very quickly this way.

Originally Posted by 2manybikes
It depends on what the cop percieved as "unsafe". It also depends on the environment surrounding the ride. I did not let my kids ride unsupervised at age 10. It depends also on the child. 10 seems too young to me. Not because it was a bike ride, just the time spent alone. But my environment is probably more urban than what you describe. When they were 10 I was along for the ride.
Ask for more details from the police. If the cop was really going to call child protective services, there may be something you don't know about. An accident, an abduction, bullies, who knows? Maybe the cop has seen a lot of scary things that cause him to be that protective.
And, for these reasons, I again, voice the suggestion again I placed above.

Originally Posted by sggoodri
Give the officer a copy of the book Free Range Kids
A book is not law. And, because one book was written, doesn't necessarily make it "The One True Way" to rear a child... If it were, it would be the only book every written after the fact on the subject, and all child psychologists would be using that in treatment courses.
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Well my husband talked with the officer at the school this morning who says they have been receiving 'complaints' about a young child riding to school and back (remember this is a distance of 1 mile). Not that the child was doing anything unsafe, just that she was riding to and from school.And it is there 'policy' in issues of safety to inform child protective services. He did write a report regarding this so I will go down today and pick that up (I want a copy for my records)

In my opinion it may be a matter of an unsupervised child - but the reason is she is riding her bike. Realistically how many parents of 10 year old go outside and make their children stay in the front yard. What is the difference of a 10 year old child outside playing alone and riding a bike 1 mile to school?

Apparently some of the complaints focused on terrain. Well there is a large hill she must climb but even the officer admitted "she was scooting right along" so obviously this "terrain" inst an issue for her. One point they keep making is the lack of sidewalk (there isn't one) - however we have intentionally taught her how to ride in the street safely and competently.

I am PROUD to say my child is a competent cyclist who enjoys her rides and her bicycle and I am proud be able to allow her this privilege. Bottom line at this point, she will continue to ride and cps will get slot of complaints. When it is raining, foggy, cold or dark she will ride the bus as she has always done.
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Originally Posted by BikeMomTn
Well my husband talked with the officer at the school this morning who says they have been receiving 'complaints' about a young child riding to school and back (remember this is a distance of 1 mile). Not that the child was doing anything unsafe, just that she was riding to and from school.And it is there 'policy' in issues of safety to inform child protective services. He did write a report regarding this so I will go down today and pick that up (I want a copy for my records)

In my opinion it may be a matter of an unsupervised child - but the reason is she is riding her bike. Realistically how many parents of 10 year old go outside and make their children stay in the front yard. What is the difference of a 10 year old child outside playing alone and riding a bike 1 mile to school?

Apparently some of the complaints focused on terrain. Well there is a large hill she must climb but even the officer admitted "she was scooting right along" so obviously this "terrain" inst an issue for her. One point they keep making is the lack of sidewalk (there isn't one) - however we have intentionally taught her how to ride in the street safely and competently.

I am PROUD to say my child is a competent cyclist who enjoys her rides and her bicycle and I am proud be able to allow her this privilege. Bottom line at this point, she will continue to ride and cps will get slot of complaints. When it is raining, foggy, cold or dark she will ride the bus as she has always done.
Of course you could "drive" her to school by riding a bike along with her... heck the exercise might be good for you too.

I generally agree with you... I am merely offering suggestions to get the busy bodies off of your back. On the flip side... if these folks do see your daughter, perhaps they are actually watching out for her.

Used to be that the "village" watched out for each other, and neighbors talked and knew one another.
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