Self-Loathing Cyclists
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Self-Loathing Cyclists
Look, by an astronomical margin, cars do more things to endanger cyclist than ANYTHING a cyclist could do on the road. I'm fed up with self-loathing cyclists. Every friggin' ride it is something with cars. It doesn't matter if I'm solo or with a group. And, I ride in the middle of nowhere. I don;t give a crap anymore. I will go through stop signs and red lights if I can do so safely. I will take the lane if i need to. I don't give a s**t what any motorist or self-loathing cyclist says. It 's a killing field out there and cyclists are losing. Motorists will NEVER respect us, ever, no matter what. I've never come across a self loathing motorist. They OWN the road.
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My guess is that the OP is referring to the BF posters who constantly whine about other cyclists who don't fit their own profile. A more accurate description would be other kinda cyclist loather.
On the A&S list, these loathers are the self righteous Dudley-Do-Rights who want to throw the law book at and snitch on all the other kinda cyclists who are not as perfect, or as anal as themselves. Another subgroup of the "loathers" are the provincial types who have no empathy (or use) for other kinda people who don't share their own lifestyle choice about bicycle use as a primary means of transportation.
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I don't understand the "self loathing" part ,Unless it means any other biker that dissagrees with you. It's easy to say 'I don't give a S---" but really living that way is tough.
Stop signs and signals were put there for all our safety.
If you really don't give a "rats" keep on running stop signs and such just please leave a letter with someone so they can tell us how you died.
Ride Safe
Dave.
Stop signs and signals were put there for all our safety.
If you really don't give a "rats" keep on running stop signs and such just please leave a letter with someone so they can tell us how you died.
Ride Safe
Dave.
#5
Funny - I'm having the other problem. Motorists in general seem to be more than willing to wave me across at a stop sign. Cyclists, on the other hand, don't seen to want to stop for anyone - pedestrians or even another cyclist crossing the street in front of them. And IMO, when the majority of cyclists behave like that - its not too surprising that many motorists don't respect them. Inconsiderate behavior isn't any more acceptable just because its done on two wheels instead of four.
#6
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So, this is another thread complaining about cyclists who complain about cyclists? Okay, I'll join the fun by suggesting the OP's experience with mv drivers is far from typical. Most drivers complain all the time about other drivers. I'll also confess that most drivers seem to respect me so I cannot match his fine whine.
#8
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I'm sick of this entire cars/cagers dichotomy and simplistic view of cars bad, bikes good. The VAST majority of autos are respectful and I have few problems. If you're having a lot of issues, maybe it's you and not them. By percentage, I see more jack ass bikes than cars - and no - just because you're on a bike doesn't mean I respect you and I don't have to respect your choices when they endanger me and/or others. Ride the wrong way in my lane? No - I'm not moving and I will do my best to force you to pull over or go into opposing traffic. Don't like it? Stop riding like an ass.
You folks spend so much time looking to be victimized that it's disgusting. You're people who like bikes, that's it. We're not an oppressed minority, we aren't being hunted by death squads. We're folks who enjoy riding bikes. We are a tiny percentage of traffic and maybe we don't have the right to assume everyone else is going to love us and we should get our own special roads. I loathe unrealistic, self righteous BS myself. I'm a dude on a bike...that has some disadvantages and advantages. I understand I inconvenience others and try not to while staying safe. That's it...we're people who like bikes, not a special class.
You folks spend so much time looking to be victimized that it's disgusting. You're people who like bikes, that's it. We're not an oppressed minority, we aren't being hunted by death squads. We're folks who enjoy riding bikes. We are a tiny percentage of traffic and maybe we don't have the right to assume everyone else is going to love us and we should get our own special roads. I loathe unrealistic, self righteous BS myself. I'm a dude on a bike...that has some disadvantages and advantages. I understand I inconvenience others and try not to while staying safe. That's it...we're people who like bikes, not a special class.
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Yeah, I've never heard a car driver ranting about 18 wheelers, commercial trucks, RVs, pickups, or SUVs. 
They will rant about anyone who is a member of another "group" of drivers.
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Much like 'cyclists' will rant about anyone who is a member of another "group" of cyclists...
#11
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The car that ran the stop sign yesterday and would have hit me if I hadn't taken evasive action could have caused me tremendous suffering. The cyclist who ran the red light and nearly hit my wife and I two days ago on our tandem could have caused me a bit of road rash. Both are the acts of narcissists. I fail to see how refusing to follow the law is enlightened in any way. However, I assume that self-absorbed people ride like they drive, so I would rather see them riding. (Road rash is better than death.) That means I generally don't give other cyclists any grief over their choices, even when I disagree with them.
Or, to put it another way, I would much rather share the road with millions of stop sign/red light running cyclists than with the crop of stop sign/red light running, speeding, texting motorists that I am currently playing dodge-car with.
Or, to put it another way, I would much rather share the road with millions of stop sign/red light running cyclists than with the crop of stop sign/red light running, speeding, texting motorists that I am currently playing dodge-car with.
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I read the OP's first post again. It is really all about cars. What's the self loathing about other than being defiant and wanting to exercise some degree of control? Something a small package (cyclist/scooter/moped) on the road doesn't have.
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Some people act like they (maybe they never have) driven a car behind a bicycle. Roads are made for cars, not bikes! Bike just get to use them and it sucks being stuck behind a bike taking up too much room causing traffic!! I ride a bike, I ride on the road, I respect cars! They pay for the roads, and they are BIGGER then me!!! Respect cars and they will (might) respect you. Stop complaining about cars, without them we would be riding on mud!
#14
People pay for roads not cars. Tax dollars are paid by road users and non users alike. As such I will excersize to the extent it is legitimate and sensible, but no need to go past that. If an occasional car has an issue I can life with that because I am endangering nobody by occupying a space. If I come up behind a rider or a horse buggy or a tractor I will most likely lag a moment or two to see the sensible thing to do and sometimes that is to not pass. If it is, I pass respectfully. Occasionally the cars behind take a hint when I set the example. There are always going to be exceptions, and I record them.
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If you're having a lot of issues, maybe it's you and not them. By percentage, I see more jack ass bikes than cars - and no - just because you're on a bike doesn't mean I respect you and I don't have to respect your choices when they endanger me and/or others. Ride the wrong way in my lane? No - I'm not moving and I will do my best to force you to pull over or go into opposing traffic. Don't like it? Stop riding like an ass.
You folks spend so much time looking to be victimized that it's disgusting. You're people who like bikes, that's it. We're not an oppressed minority, we aren't being hunted by death squads. We're folks who enjoy riding bikes. We are a tiny percentage of traffic and maybe we don't have the right to assume everyone else is going to love us and we should get our own special roads. I loathe unrealistic, self righteous BS myself. I'm a dude on a bike...that has some disadvantages and advantages. I understand I inconvenience others and try not to while staying safe. That's it...we're people who like bikes, not a special class.
Some people act like they (maybe they never have) driven a car behind a bicycle. Roads are made for cars, not bikes! Bike just get to use them and it sucks being stuck behind a bike taking up too much room causing traffic!! I ride a bike, I ride on the road, I respect cars! They pay for the roads, and they are BIGGER then me!!! Respect cars and they will (might) respect you. Stop complaining about cars, without them we would be riding on mud!
As for roads being made for cars not bikes. Last I checked their were roads before there were cars and their were bikes before their were cars. I do agree that it would be much nicer for everyone if much more if not all high speed roadways had wide paved shoulder edges which as I have mentioned above would be a win/win for everyone. And all that really only applies to high speed roadways, in town, in traffic, on 25mph or slower speed limit roads bicyclists can certainly keep up with traffic and hold their own and when I'm on a bike I find that the best way to ride in town and when I'm driving a car in town under such condition bicyclists who ride VC and take the lane and act like they are just another vehicle on the road aren't the ones that annoy me or that I'm worried about. Its the other upredictable ones that you never know what they are going to do and dart in and out of traffic and go back and forth between the sidewalks and the road and go either direction on either side of the road and don't seem to even know that traffic signals or cross walk signals even exist that I have to watch out for.
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It seems that cliqueism is a very human trait.
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I don't give a s**t what any motorist or self-loathing cyclist says. It 's a killing field out there and cyclists are losing. Motorists will NEVER respect us, ever, no matter what.
#19
If I was going to have a rant, it would probably not be about motorists or cyclists because I seem to have more problems with douchbag pedestrians. Like in the gym the other night and some new guy was puffed right up like a frilly lizard strutting around with his fat tummy (which I'm sure in his mind was seen as muscle). The guy struts around like everyone has to pause in their footsteps and give him right-of-way, like he is a pharaoh or something. Hate to think what he was like in a car but I bet it was a pickup!
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Now peds are another subject. I have been trying to be nice on the MUP when I come up behind a ped by saying "on your left" so far 100% of the time they move to the left, right in front of me. So now I just buzz by them on their left.
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Exactly why I don't ride MUP's here. I have called out "on your left" and have actually had people move over to the left thinking that was what I was saying...I guess...
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Some people act like they (maybe they never have) driven a car behind a bicycle. Roads are made for cars, not bikes! Bike just get to use them and it sucks being stuck behind a bike taking up too much room causing traffic!! I ride a bike, I ride on the road, I respect cars! They pay for the roads, and they are BIGGER then me!!! Respect cars and they will (might) respect you. Stop complaining about cars, without them we would be riding on mud!
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Some people act like they (maybe they never have) driven a car behind a bicycle. Roads are made for cars, not bikes! Bike just get to use them and it sucks being stuck behind a bike taking up too much room causing traffic!! I ride a bike, I ride on the road, I respect cars! They pay for the roads, and they are BIGGER then me!!! Respect cars and they will (might) respect you. Stop complaining about cars, without them we would be riding on mud!
I have no problem riding on the mud BTW. I have a bike for every occasion.
The days are coming where bicycle infrastructure is not only going to become an issue, but I feel more and more people are eventually going to start seeing it's benefits.
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You know it's that kind of mentality that exists within the psyche of those car drivers who feel they have an exclusive unalienable right to dominate the roadways regardless of who they share them with...car, bike or pedestrian.
I have no problem riding on the mud BTW. I have a bike for every occasion.
The days are coming where bicycle infrastructure is not only going to become an issue, but I feel more and more people are eventually going to start seeing it's benefits.
I have no problem riding on the mud BTW. I have a bike for every occasion.
The days are coming where bicycle infrastructure is not only going to become an issue, but I feel more and more people are eventually going to start seeing it's benefits.
#25
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I don't understand the "self loathing" part ,Unless it means any other biker that dissagrees with you. It's easy to say 'I don't give a S---" but really living that way is tough.
Stop signs and signals were put there for all our safety.
If you really don't give a "rats" keep on running stop signs and such just please leave a letter with someone so they can tell us how you died.
Ride Safe
Dave.
Stop signs and signals were put there for all our safety.
If you really don't give a "rats" keep on running stop signs and such just please leave a letter with someone so they can tell us how you died.
Ride Safe
Dave.




