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tarwheel 03-31-16 07:59 AM

A van pulled up beside me at a traffic light the other day, and the woman in the front passenger street said very loudly to me: "You're not supposed to be riding a bicycle on the street." This was on a street that's a marked city bicycle route! I told her, "That's not true," but the light turned green before I could elaborate. Probably the common interaction I have with drivers is someone yelling "Get on the sidewalk." Most drivers are so ignorant of traffic laws that don't know that bikes are not supposed to ride on sidewalks and they are legally allowed on all roads except limited access freeways in NC.

kickstart 03-31-16 08:19 AM


Originally Posted by CrankyOne (Post 18651839)
What is wrong with someone's wife driving them around?

Well, if they drive like my wife........domestic harmony demands I keep my eyes closed, and my mouth shut.

JReade 03-31-16 08:29 AM


Originally Posted by Phil_gretz (Post 18651815)
Bad tactical thinking. How many wives have more acute situational awareness than their husbands? In a SHTF scenario (active shooter, car over guardrail, black ice, car jacking), do you want the average woman behind the wheel? I don't.. that's my job.

Suit yourself Dwight, I'll be back here sipping champagne.
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AlmostTrick 03-31-16 08:42 AM


Originally Posted by Dave Cutter (Post 18651913)
We all have our demons. Fortunately they live (weightlessly) inside us... and if managed correctly they remain invisible to most everyone else.

Speak for yourself. My demon lives outside of me and drives me around. She's actually pretty good at it... :love:

hollywoodeskimo 03-31-16 08:43 AM


Originally Posted by Phil_gretz (Post 18651661)
Passenger in Prius should surrender his man card now:
a) owns a Prius, obviously
b) has wife driving him around
c) can't man up and own his wife's / vehicle's mistake
d) bad - misinformed citizen


I'll gladly give up my man card, if I even have one.

The idea of driving a hybrid appeals to me because it supports the progress towards fuel efficiency and all the good that that brings about. Making responsible choices in vehicle purchases is not just manly, it is humanly.

Wives, in general, can drive, too. There is nothing unmanly about sharing chores and responsibilities with one's spouse.

He shouldn't be speaking up for his wife if she is capable of doing this for herself. She was the driver. If she has a comment for the cyclist, it is her place to make the comment. The husband was not protecting her or helping her. He was calling into question her judgment as to how to handle the situation. (This assumes that she did not ask him to make a rude, unsupported and irrelevant comment.)

alan s 03-31-16 08:48 AM


Originally Posted by CrankyOne (Post 18651909)
What's with all the immature Prius hate?

It's not about the cars, but the people driving them. People driving BMWs are usually at the other end of the spectrum. Again, it's the drivers, not the cars. What's immature about that? Are you offended that people judge you by the car you drive?

CrankyOne 03-31-16 09:12 AM


Originally Posted by kickstart (Post 18652011)
Well, if they drive like my wife........domestic harmony demands I keep my eyes closed, and my mouth shut.

I've a neighbor whose wife often drives when they go places. He's a very aggressive driver and she hates riding with him. He said that he's come to like it because he can look stuff up on his iPad while they're driving.

Dave Cutter 03-31-16 09:20 AM


Originally Posted by AlmostTrick (Post 18652069)
Speak for yourself. My demon lives outside of me and drives me around. She's actually pretty good at it... :love:

Oops! I had thought you were the OP... my bad. I edited my post.

GeoKrpan 03-31-16 09:42 AM

Prius nerds. I go on high alert when I see a Prius, Corolla, or Camry. A Camry driver is a Corolla driver who traded up.

Prius nerds hate bikes because they are being out-smugged, out-greened.

RidingMatthew 03-31-16 10:12 AM


Originally Posted by GeoKrpan (Post 18652233)
Prius nerds .... out-greened.

out greened that is funny

Darth Lefty 03-31-16 10:24 AM

I have these stories, but I don't tell them much. I don't figure there's much point to it. The most recent, I was with my wife and had the baby trailer under tow, my whole family. We were turning left out of a Starbucks in a shopping center, edging out into the road when it became clear... and a Suburban driver drove around the left of us to make a right turn in front of us. We were in no danger, really, he saw us and didn't run us over. But what a dick, why didn't he go to our right?

GeoKrpan 03-31-16 10:56 AM


Originally Posted by RidingMatthew (Post 18652324)

out greened that is funny

: )))

Hypno Toad 03-31-16 11:18 AM


Originally Posted by GeoKrpan (Post 18652233)
Prius nerds. I go on high alert when I see a Prius, Corolla, or Camry. A Camry driver is a Corolla driver who traded up.

Prius nerds hate bikes because they are being out-smugged, out-greened.

HA! Love it!

Leebo 03-31-16 11:35 AM


Originally Posted by GeoKrpan (Post 18652233)
Prius nerds. I go on high alert when I see a Prius, Corolla, or Camry. A Camry driver is a Corolla driver who traded up.

Prius nerds hate bikes because they are being out-smugged, out-greened.

Corolla? Hey, I drive one of them. This a CA thing? Here in MA, it's BMW, kids in cars, giant 7 person SUV's and Bubba trucks ( lift kits, big tires, spewing diesel) .

I-Like-To-Bike 03-31-16 12:08 PM


Originally Posted by CrankyOne (Post 18651909)
What's with all the immature Prius hate?

Immaturity, "serious" stereotyping, and/or "serious" issue with generalized hate?

JoeyBike 03-31-16 12:53 PM

If I say anything to any motorist that wrongs me out there, it will be limited to one word for female drivers, and two words for male drivers. These words have been carefully chosen over the years and will do painful temporary psychological damage to the person they are yelled at. Kind of like a mental Freddie Krueger attack. I gotta be pretty angry to pull out those words, but is has been done.

http://rottenink.files.wordpress.com...ger%20808x1024

Kedosto 03-31-16 01:06 PM

Hell, I was waiting for the part of the story where somebody in the car brandishes a pistol because OP had the audacity to say something to them. I guess that only happens on my commute.

I consider drivers turning in front of me a *first world problem*.


-Kedosto

PatrickGSR94 03-31-16 01:31 PM

My wife generally doesn't like driving whereas I do, and I generally don't like the way she drives, so it works out for us. :D She will drive in the left lane for MILES just because the next turn is a left turn, and she hates changing lanes more than making people pass her on the right, just because of apparently this one time years ago when she almost hit someone when trying to change lanes.

Rick@OCRR 03-31-16 01:56 PM

My wife and I have a simple rule. If we're in her car, she drives. If we're in my car I drive.

And, thankfully, most drivers are good to me, bike commuting here in the suburbs of LA (Whittier, La Mirada, Norwalk). I don't drive a Prius but I do drive the early Honda equivalent, i.e. 2006 Honda Insight. My bike fits nicely in the back when going out to weekend ride starts (yes, do have to take the front wheel off).

When my wife and I are both traveling to a remote start ride we take her car (RAV4) and she drives. Fine with me!

Rick / OCRR

JoeyBike 03-31-16 02:23 PM


Originally Posted by Rick@OCRR (Post 18652968)
My wife and I have a simple rule. If we're in her car, she drives. If we're in my car I drive.

My wife and i have a rule too. The most skillful, awake...or sober...person drives.

alan s 03-31-16 02:30 PM

I had to ride in a Pruis once, and felt like rolling down the window and apologizing to everyone. "I'm sorry. It's not my car, but I am truly sorry."

corrado33 03-31-16 02:56 PM


Originally Posted by Dave Cutter (Post 18651296)
As they say on the playground.... you started it.

Or if you've been following the news. "As Donald Trump says after bickering about a question he didn't want to answer. You started it!"

But more on topic, people are idiots. I try my best to ignore them. Almost the exact same situation happened to me. I was riding along, going straight on the road. A person pulls alongside of me. I look at her, she looks at me. She puts her turn signal on and proceeds to turn right, INTO me.

GeoKrpan 03-31-16 04:17 PM


Originally Posted by Hypno Toad (Post 18652574)
HA! Love it!

: )))

GeoKrpan 03-31-16 04:26 PM


Originally Posted by Leebo (Post 18652621)
Corolla? Hey, I drive one of them. This a CA thing? Here in MA, it's BMW, kids in cars, giant 7 person SUV's and Bubba trucks ( lift kits, big tires, spewing diesel) .

In SoCal a Corolla is a maids car.

GeoKrpan 03-31-16 04:34 PM

Joey, time for a Geek Hunting thread.


Originally Posted by JoeyBike (Post 18652811)
If I say anything to any motorist that wrongs me out there, it will be limited to one word for female drivers, and two words for male drivers. These words have been carefully chosen over the years and will do painful temporary psychological damage to the person they are yelled at. Kind of like a mental Freddie Krueger attack. I gotta be pretty angry to pull out those words, but is has been done.

http://rottenink.files.wordpress.com...ger%20808x1024



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