How do you deal with people at work?
#76
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One funny thing I forgot to mention is that our bike rack is outside in the same spot that the smokers have to hang out for their smoke breaks.
I was getting ready to ride home in the dark when one co-worker who was puffing away said, "geez, your riding home in the dark and it's raining, you could end up killing yourself."
I just looked directly at the Camel he was puffing away at and gave him the one eyebrow raised look. He looked down at his cig with a priceless expression as I rode off.
I was getting ready to ride home in the dark when one co-worker who was puffing away said, "geez, your riding home in the dark and it's raining, you could end up killing yourself."
I just looked directly at the Camel he was puffing away at and gave him the one eyebrow raised look. He looked down at his cig with a priceless expression as I rode off.
#77
One funny thing I forgot to mention is that our bike rack is outside in the same spot that the smokers have to hang out for their smoke breaks.
I was getting ready to ride home in the dark when one co-worker who was puffing away said, "geez, your riding home in the dark and it's raining, you could end up killing yourself."
I just looked directly at the Camel he was puffing away at and gave him the one eyebrow raised look. He looked down at his cig with a priceless expression as I rode off.
I was getting ready to ride home in the dark when one co-worker who was puffing away said, "geez, your riding home in the dark and it's raining, you could end up killing yourself."
I just looked directly at the Camel he was puffing away at and gave him the one eyebrow raised look. He looked down at his cig with a priceless expression as I rode off.

#78
No, I change in the bathroom downstairs or the storeroom. Got to stay out the storeroom though, because even though I am 71 years old, I got the young ladies on my job trying to find out if I am in the storeroom changing clothes so they can crash in!! 
Not only that, you got to go out your way to even see in my cubicle. All the co-workers confirmed to HR that I DO NOT CHANGE IN MY CUBICLE.
Look, I have done nothing to this guy. I treat him with respect. But, after that email, I leave it alone. He is the one with problems, not I. In addition, I will not let him drag me down to that level. Life is too damn short for that crap..

Not only that, you got to go out your way to even see in my cubicle. All the co-workers confirmed to HR that I DO NOT CHANGE IN MY CUBICLE.
Look, I have done nothing to this guy. I treat him with respect. But, after that email, I leave it alone. He is the one with problems, not I. In addition, I will not let him drag me down to that level. Life is too damn short for that crap..
#79

Thanks guy..

At 71 years old, I ain't passing up NOTHING.

Plus, and this is the solid truth, I change in bathroom most of the time, but sometimes I change in the storeroom where I store my bike. Some of my hot young lady co-workers be trying to crash in on me too.

Like I said in another post, at my age, I ain't got nothing to save.. I go for most of it, if not all of it!
#80
There are several ways to handle this problem:
1) Revenge: Observe each fellow employee that annoys you with their snide remarks. If you really think about it, there's something different about everybody. Some different things are nice, some are not so nice. Everytime, someone says or implies something negative about your cycling, retaliate with something about their negative difference (though that seems kinda immature).
2) Ignore them completely. Ignore the remark and just don't respond at all. This really annoys some people. Eventually, they'll associate their rude comments with your cold shoulder.
3) Don't just ride your bike, but work-out during your break, and anytime you can seize the moment. Tell them that your training for some kinda competition (triathlon perhaps) or something. They'll just see your cycling as part of your training regimen.
4) Tell them that Jesus loves them...Many people don't like hearing anything about god, the bible, or anything religious. Take advantage of this peculiarity. Just say, "Well Jesus loves you anyway!"...Eventually, they'll associate your repeated religious comment with there snide remarks and they'll stop.
- Slim
1) Revenge: Observe each fellow employee that annoys you with their snide remarks. If you really think about it, there's something different about everybody. Some different things are nice, some are not so nice. Everytime, someone says or implies something negative about your cycling, retaliate with something about their negative difference (though that seems kinda immature).
2) Ignore them completely. Ignore the remark and just don't respond at all. This really annoys some people. Eventually, they'll associate their rude comments with your cold shoulder.
3) Don't just ride your bike, but work-out during your break, and anytime you can seize the moment. Tell them that your training for some kinda competition (triathlon perhaps) or something. They'll just see your cycling as part of your training regimen.
4) Tell them that Jesus loves them...Many people don't like hearing anything about god, the bible, or anything religious. Take advantage of this peculiarity. Just say, "Well Jesus loves you anyway!"...Eventually, they'll associate your repeated religious comment with there snide remarks and they'll stop.
- Slim

IMO, #1 is out the question. Because you go the revenge route, you no better than them, and IMO, you will soon forget how to smile or see the all this beauty in the world. This knowledge comes from the length of my years.

#2 is the one. Not only that, they all know I workout everyday, seen my warm up in my sig..
So, that is what I do to the haters, #2..
BTW, I have done #4 also. I didn't tell them that, I just PRAYED FOR THEM. It works too..

Again, great reply...
#81
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End result after taking him to HR, the gave me a storeroom about 5 yards from my cubicle to store my bike. The other stuff, they told me to disregard. I wish I could post the whole email. Now, I am 71 years old, I commute 5 days a week on bicycle and motorcycle, and this creep for whatever reason, hates my guts!!

#82
You should keep a log of events that occur, time and date and if anyone else witnessed. I'd also suggest writing an email to the HR dept. asking them to clarify exactly how you are to go about disregarding a hostile work environment, make sure to CC the head of the HR dept. If anything were to happen you'd be amazed at the power a little cya will give you.
Now, as I stated, I am an older person, can't fight my way out a paper bag. But, a couple times I found my fist balling up, and with the intent of picking up a chair and just ramming this person to no end. Of course, I would be the big loser there. The union has told me, that they have dealt with the person, and also label him as a trouble maker.
In the meantime, I am clocking this person as big time jealous, and I am keeping on doing what I am doing. BTW, the co-worker is about 15 to 20 years my junior.
Thanks for the feedback..
#83
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most of the people I work with are supportive, but I still get grief from a few folks. I tend to think it's because they think that I think I'm better than them because I ride. so, when they ask, I just say "for me, it's faster than driving from where I live, given the traffic." and they are usually cool with that.
there are a couple of folks who express sincere concern for my safety, especially as we get into winter. I tell them that I appreciate their concerns, and then I show them my array of lights and also explain that the reason I ride a folder is so I can just put it on the train in a downpour
there are a couple of folks who express sincere concern for my safety, especially as we get into winter. I tell them that I appreciate their concerns, and then I show them my array of lights and also explain that the reason I ride a folder is so I can just put it on the train in a downpour
#84
Not a full time bike commuter, about 80%. Only comment I ever got was a few weeks ago when I drove and the gal in the office next to me saw me park and said, "I didn't know you had a car." I just shrugged and said my car should last forever since I don't put many miles on it.
#85
most of the people I work with are supportive, but I still get grief from a few folks. I tend to think it's because they think that I think I'm better than them because I ride. so, when they ask, I just say "for me, it's faster than driving from where I live, given the traffic." and they are usually cool with that.
there are a couple of folks who express sincere concern for my safety, especially as we get into winter. I tell them that I appreciate their concerns, and then I show them my array of lights and also explain that the reason I ride a folder is so I can just put it on the train in a downpour
there are a couple of folks who express sincere concern for my safety, especially as we get into winter. I tell them that I appreciate their concerns, and then I show them my array of lights and also explain that the reason I ride a folder is so I can just put it on the train in a downpour
#86
...there are a couple of folks who express sincere concern for my safety, especially as we get into winter. I tell them that I appreciate their concerns, and then I show them my array of lights and also explain that the reason I ride a folder is so I can just put it on the train in a downpour
#88
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From: Sioux Falls, SD
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Nobody has ever given me grief. Sometimes they question my sanity.
I figure all the other nutty things I do would probably get them to question my sanity anyway.
I figure all the other nutty things I do would probably get them to question my sanity anyway.
#89
It's not common around here to harass colleagues because of their chosen means of transportation. Sometimes if it's raining hard, or in the middle of winter, people will ask me if I rode to work. I play it down. I believe that has been a contributing factor to the fact we now have more bike commuters in summer than before. People understand it's not such a big deal afterall.
If I had a real bully at work picking on me, dunno. Maybe pound my head with both hands, eyes tightly shut, shouting "shuddup voices, I DON'T want to KILL again, he's a COLLEAGUE!!".
If I had a real bully at work picking on me, dunno. Maybe pound my head with both hands, eyes tightly shut, shouting "shuddup voices, I DON'T want to KILL again, he's a COLLEAGUE!!".
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#90
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From: Edmonton, Canada
Consider finding a different job. With better co-workers, and possibly a boss who rides bikes.
Most of the leadership team at my office bikes to work - and they come further and are more dedicated winter riders than I. I suppose my coworkers could make fun of me, but the implication of making fun of the top 3 people in the firm would probably fall flat.
Our biggest problem around here is finding parking space...our tiny storage room gets pretty crowded on a nice day.
Most of the leadership team at my office bikes to work - and they come further and are more dedicated winter riders than I. I suppose my coworkers could make fun of me, but the implication of making fun of the top 3 people in the firm would probably fall flat.
Our biggest problem around here is finding parking space...our tiny storage room gets pretty crowded on a nice day.
#91
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Thanks for the advice guys, I decided I'd just play it down, get people laughing at work and maybe they'd cool it. So yesterday after biking through a lite snow I asked my boss if I missed a memo that morning. He asked what I meant and I said "I didn't see a single person on the trail on the way in, isn't that weird?"
The look on his face was awesome
The look on his face was awesome
#93
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Get a job at a health care facility. Nothing but compliments and positive reinforcement! 
I do let my co-workers know that while I am changing in my office to knock first, because for a few moments I'll be buck nekkid.
I do let my co-workers know that while I am changing in my office to knock first, because for a few moments I'll be buck nekkid.
#94
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Thanks for the advice guys, I decided I'd just play it down, get people laughing at work and maybe they'd cool it. So yesterday after biking through a lite snow I asked my boss if I missed a memo that morning. He asked what I meant and I said "I didn't see a single person on the trail on the way in, isn't that weird?"
The look on his face was awesome
The look on his face was awesome

I get some ribbing at work, but it's mostly awe over the amount of food I eat and the low temperatures I can tolerate.
- Scott
#96
#97
I hope I am wrong on the first one, but I am quite sure you CAN'T TAKE full size bikes on the Marc rail at anytime. I will check today.
However, here is the route I found to be able to take a full size bike from Baltimore to DC and visa versa.
Light Rail in Baltimore to BWI transfer point. The Light Rail makes two stops at BWI. The BWI transfer point is the one right before the terminal stop.
There one can board the B30 Metro Bus, which has a bike rack on the front, to GreenBelt. At Greenbelt board a Metro to DC. Some has even told me that you can get a B30 or similiar Metro bus right into DC.
#98
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I think the green eyed monster has invaded your coworker.
Who wouldn't want, at 71 years old, to do what you do .
You go, cehowardGS!!!!
#99
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But, there is the occasional person that likes to be a jerk. The other day I had a guy come up to me and say "Hey, why can't you be like every body else and buy a car?"
My supervisor also likes to single me out, in front of every one and ask how I'm going to get to work in the winter, just to laugh at me while I explain that the trail is in fact plowed, and it won't be an issue.
I know some of you have been commuting a lot longer then me, how do you handle resistance from your coworkers that just don't seem to get it?
My supervisor also likes to single me out, in front of every one and ask how I'm going to get to work in the winter, just to laugh at me while I explain that the trail is in fact plowed, and it won't be an issue.
I know some of you have been commuting a lot longer then me, how do you handle resistance from your coworkers that just don't seem to get it?
"I look at me and I look at you (while pointing to your coworker's overarching belly...) and I've decided I'd rather be me."
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