Am I cynical??---Honest answers
I'll admit, I'm not a very social animal; however, it seems an inordinate amount of posts lately pose a redundant question that no one can answer other the the OP. Maybe it's just me, but the forum seems to be a little stagnant lately. OK, FLAMES accepted.
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Sounds to me like you're doing what you're accusing others of..
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I'm thinking:
1) it's prime cycling season, people are out riding or too tired to post. 2) political conventions have been distracting. 3) I like numbered lists. I don't know why. Maybe I need a sense of order in my life. 4) feel free to initiate compelling and interesting posts, preferably with pictures, discussions of babes, pictures of discussons of babes, bad saddles, good tires, hard singletrack, steep hills and happy trails. But, if you just want to complain, as I said, there's plenty of that going on in the political forums. |
I'm not sure of your point. BF has been like that since I joined, nearly 2 yrs. ago.
Can you be more specific? |
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Seriously? I am too cynical to judge
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DG is missing, Catweasel is missing, and lord knows how we miss Big Paulie.
Need I say more?:) |
DG has only been missing for about a week. He's been gone that long a couple times in the past. Let's hope that he's been busy with honest work or wild fun and will return soon.
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I miss crosschain:(
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Originally Posted by card
(Post 7403403)
I'll admit, I'm not a very social animal; however, it seems an inordinate amount of posts lately pose a redundant question that no one can answer other the the OP. Maybe it's just me, but the forum seems to be a little stagnant lately. OK, FLAMES accepted.
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That and the usual complaint that someone ought to go to the archives and look it up. If they, or me, need help, give it, or skip over it.
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The 50+ forum is like a lion that is dozing in the sunshine. It seems to be in a deep sleep. But if you mention something controversial, like chain lube, it will come roaring back to life.
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You must mean the threads like "What color bike should I like?"
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Huh?, Oh, sorry, I was taking a nap...
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I've found that a daily dose of Metamucil cures cynicism after a few days.
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No you're not cynical just old and boring...I am switching to the 100+ forum now to read some inciteful posts. You youngsters worry too much.....:twitchy:
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Originally Posted by Wanderer
(Post 7404952)
That and the usual complaint that someone ought to go to the archives and look it up. If they, or me, need help, give it, or skip over it.
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I've learned alot on this forum, but my biggest complaint is that legitimate questions are often made fun of.
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Originally Posted by monk
(Post 7405520)
I've learned alot on this forum, but my biggest complaint is that legitimate questions are often made fun of.
I think this may be more true in other forums. Could you provide some examples? |
Originally Posted by DnvrFox
(Post 7405549)
I don't agree. There may be a bit of good-natured poking fun for a short while, but it is not too long before someone answers the question directly and correctly.
I think this may be more true in other forums. |
Harry Stack Sullivan coined the term consensual validation. By it he meant the process of seeking confirmation that our experiences, thoughts, ideas, etc. were a normal function of seeking to know that our subjective perceptions were not aberrant and could fit within the context of objective reality. In many ways this process leads individuals toward higher levels of adaptive interpersonal skills. What seems obvious to one may not be perceived in the same way by another. My grandmother would have said all of this thusly: "Folks are what they are and they do what they got to do."
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Originally Posted by card
(Post 7403403)
I'll admit, I'm not a very social animal; however, it seems an inordinate amount of posts lately pose a redundant question that no one can answer other the the OP. Maybe it's just me, but the forum seems to be a little stagnant lately. OK, FLAMES accepted.
It's like new rock. It's all been done before. |
Cynical? Possibly. Masochistic? Definitely!
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Originally Posted by BSLeVan
(Post 7405916)
Harry Stack Sullivan coined the term consensual validation. By it he meant the process of seeking confirmation that our experiences, thoughts, ideas, etc. were a normal function of seeking to know that our subjective perceptions were not aberrant and could fit within the context of objective reality. In many ways this process leads individuals toward higher levels of adaptive interpersonal skills. What seems obvious to one may not be perceived in the same way by another. My grandmother would have said all of this thusly: "Folks are what they are and they do what they got to do."
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Originally Posted by Jet Travis
(Post 7405331)
The 50+ forum is like a lion that is dozing in the sunshine. It seems to be in a deep sleep. But if you mention something controversial, like chain lube, it will come roaring back to life.
+1 or white bikes |
Originally Posted by monk
(Post 7405520)
I've learned alot on this forum, but my biggest complaint is that legitimate questions are often made fun of.
------------------------------------------------- The issue I am seeing is related but different. I bike a lot. Far more than most people on this forum. I do encounter issues while I am doing this much biking. That means that only few forum members can relate to my questions and opinions. That is not the fault of this forum. The fact is that very few bikers bike as much as I do for exercise. I see proof of that every time I go on the local trails. Nobody is there except me. That is OK but makes it a bit lonely at times. Perhaps I need to move to CA?:rolleyes: |
Originally Posted by jens5
(Post 7406020)
I agree. Same old s**t, over and over. I find that I now search for just the specifics.
It's like new rock. It's all been done before. I enjoy the fellowship. Plain and simple. If you are only here for new info, then it is time to say "Sayonara" IMHO. |
Originally Posted by will dehne
(Post 7407291)
Perhaps I need to move to CA?:rolleyes:
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Originally Posted by will dehne
(Post 7407291)
All my questions were answered by this forum. Yes, there were some sarcastic replies but that should be expected in an open forum.
------------------------------------------------- The issue I am seeing is related but different. I bike a lot. Far more than most people on this forum. I do encounter issues while I am doing this much biking. That means that only few forum members can relate to my questions and opinions. That is not the fault of this forum. The fact is that very few bikers bike as much as I do for exercise. I see proof of that every time I go on the local trails. Nobody is there except me. That is OK but makes it a bit lonely at times. Perhaps I need to move to CA?:rolleyes: I would be able to ask a great rider such as you, who rides sooo much farther than I do {on the trails?} all kinds of questions that you would for sure know because of your experience.:rolleyes: But then.....I probably wouldn't be able to relate to your questions and opinions.;) |
Originally Posted by will dehne
(Post 7407291)
Perhaps I need to move to CA?:rolleyes:
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