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stapfam 06-13-10 02:43 AM


Originally Posted by chasm54 (Post 10954667)
Apologizing for yourself is not necessary. Getting over yourself may be something you might consider. 'Bye.

Point made---

CB HI 06-13-10 03:53 AM

It is truly sad that the Mods/Admin could not have made an exception for the "Diegos". It was great humor without any malicious intent.

donheff 06-13-10 05:55 AM

Good post, good forum. I returned to biking after a 30 years absence about 5 years ago. It was nice to find a place I could post a dumb question and know I would get friendly, smart answers. Still is.

Retro Grouch 06-13-10 06:34 AM

I'd like to add one thing. I don't think it's wise to rush to judgement about another poster on the basis of one thread or even on a single post.

Several years ago I became absolutely livid at Denver based upon a single post. I realize today that my anger was based upon a misunderstanding and that Denver is, in fact, a good guy. It's certainly possible to disagree with another poster based upon a single post or thread. We aren't even supposed to agree about everything. Before forming an opinion about another poster, however, I think that it's good to hang around for long enough to consider the totality of their contributions.

DnvrFox 06-13-10 08:26 AM


Originally Posted by Retro Grouch (Post 10954913)
I'd like to add one thing. I don't think it's wise to rush to judgement about another poster on the basis of one thread or even on a single post.

Several years ago I became absolutely livid at Denver based upon a single post. I realize today that my anger was based upon a misunderstanding and that Denver is, in fact, a good guy. It's certainly possible to disagree with another poster based upon a single post or thread. We aren't even supposed to agree about everything. Before forming an opinion about another poster, however, I think that it's good to hang around for long enough to consider the totality of their contributions.

And I never knew!!:p

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doctor j 06-13-10 12:58 PM

I've found 50+ to be a great source of knowledge, encouragement, and humor.

Where else can one get genuine congratulations and encouragement for one's first 10-mile ride or an honest answer to an honest question.

JanMM 06-13-10 02:11 PM


Originally Posted by DnvrFox (Post 10955155)
And I never knew!!:p

.

This is the 50+ forum...........you just forgot.

This is a good place, indeed.

Retired 06-13-10 03:12 PM

I haven't been around that long to make any judgement so I don't see anything wrong with it. One thing that is obvious is DnvrFox's leadership qualities. That is evident.
Sure, there are a lot of questions I'd like to ask but I don't knowing that they were probably asked at another time in the past. For that I try to look it up.

ddez 06-13-10 08:42 PM


Originally Posted by Retired (Post 10956376)
I haven't been around that long to make any judgement so I don't see anything wrong with it. One thing that is obvious is DnvrFox's leadership qualities. That is evident.
Sure, there are a lot of questions I'd like to ask but I don't knowing that they were probably asked at another time in the past. For that I try to look it up.

Sometimes the search feature doesnt work and at least you are making an effort, so dont be afraid of asking questions. Someone will be along soon that will answer them in a friendly manner. We are a patient lot here,mostly.

Terrierman 06-14-10 06:50 AM


Originally Posted by CB HI (Post 10954752)
It is truly sad that the Mods/Admin could not have made an exception for the "Diegos". It was great humor without any malicious intent.

50+ lost a lot when it lost the Diegos. It's still a good sub forum with a core group with an incredible base of bike knowledge. There are a few bossy old cows, but that's the way of the world.

The Weak Link 06-14-10 07:01 AM

The diegos go back a long way. They were being phased out as I was getting started (Jan 06). Never sure why the moderators put the kybosh on them.

jdon 06-14-10 07:15 AM


Originally Posted by BengeBoy (Post 10952481)
I'm always vigilant about protecting the entire Puget Sound Region from the Red Menace of the North.:thumb:

Your admission to the Whistler GF has officially been suspended.

cccorlew 06-14-10 07:38 AM

OK, OK. Group hug.
Now, get off my lawn.

Darn kids.

chipcom 06-14-10 07:56 AM

Stay out of my way at the buffet and we'll get along just fine.

Terex 06-14-10 08:05 AM


Originally Posted by Terrierman (Post 10959008)
50+ lost a lot when it lost the Diegos. It's still a good sub forum with a core group with an incredible base of bike knowledge. There are a few bossy old cows, but that's the way of the world.

Boy, big difference of opinion on that one. All of the self absorbed posting by the Diegos is why I left here for a long time. The whole "pie" thing got very stale after a while too. If a handful of you people want to play inside baseball with each other, you should realize that a LOT of other people will just tune out.

BTW, I think DnvrFox is getting younger the longer he's here. At least less self important. But still, prefacing every other post with "When I started this forum..." is long past its date of expiry.

Bud Bent 06-14-10 08:29 AM


Originally Posted by Terex (Post 10959358)
Boy, big difference of opinion on that one. All of the self absorbed posting by the Diegos is why I left here for a long time. The whole "pie" thing got very stale after a while too. If a handful of you people want to play inside baseball with each other, you should realize that a LOT of other people will just tune out.

+1
I found myself going for days without even reading the forum after the Diegos took over.

The Weak Link 06-14-10 08:52 AM

The Diegos were cool. Anyone who says otherwise probably votes Republican.


<heads for the door....>

chipcom 06-14-10 08:54 AM

Webb Diego was my hero. :love:

Kotts 06-14-10 09:16 AM


Originally Posted by The Weak Link (Post 10952788)
The "I read through the last 200 posts on this thread and every single one of them sucked" type. That makes as much sense to me as saying "I had my next door neighbor kick me five times in the junk, and I never really got used to it".

That is classic... :lol:

Ruffinit 06-14-10 09:59 AM

Hmmm.. I'm combatant by nature but I'll try to behave. Now that I've turned 50 (in body not mind), I'm a much kinder, gentler sort. :roflmao2:

Nice to find another place to contribute and all kidding aside, I really do tire of the tit for tat on some of these.

ddez 06-15-10 07:51 AM


Originally Posted by BengeBoy (Post 10952481)
I'm always vigilant about protecting the entire Puget Sound Region from the Red Menace of the North.:thumb:

Your vigilance has been noted. See jdons reply this thread.:lol:

Jim from Boston 06-15-10 10:51 AM


Originally Posted by DnvrFox (Post 10951529)
The 50+ forum was established with the following statement of purpose:

"Share the victories, challenges, successes and special concerns of bicyclists 50 and older. Especially useful for those entering or reentering bicycling."

For a vivid, real-life demonstration of those ideals, see the postings of last weekend's gathering of several subcribers at the Second Annual 50+ Forum Ride Weekend at Watkins Glen, NY:

http://www.bikeforums.net/showthread.php?628243-Second-Annual-50-Forum-Ride-Weekend-(Official-Thread)

posts #'s 121 ff, especially #143 by Seenoevil, who drove up from Alabama for the event. Other than being cyclists our only pre-ride connection was as readers of the Fifty+ Forum. :thumb: :D




chinarider 06-15-10 11:01 AM


Originally Posted by The Weak Link (Post 10959634)
The Diegos were cool.

I must have come in just at the tail end of them. The name rings a bell, but I can't remember anything specific.

Seamless 06-15-10 06:06 PM


Originally Posted by chinarider
The name rings a bell, but I can't remember anything specific.

You're in the correct forum, then. ;)

It sometimes helps to recognize that in addition to the occasional troll post, other people have personalities that have been described as "high conflict," interacting in the mode s/he has refined over years, that seemingly works for that person's needs, and is successful often enough to condition repeat uses. Both varieties of negative interactivity are inevitable in social discussion, given a large enough population engaged in communication; a helpful response may be to recognize early and not participate, or drop out without having to give the last word, depriving the stimulus that would feed an extended exchange. There's nothing worse for some people than to be ignored; ignored regularly, they will look for validation elsewhere.

In other innocuous instances it may be difficult for a recipient to parse non-malicious humor if s/he feels s/he has publicly been called a name. (Won't be as much a problem when online forums eventually transition to video threading.)


TRENTINO
What I called you... Why, what did
I call you?

GROUCHO
I don't remember.

TRENTINO
(With a little chuckle)
Oh -- you mean... worm?

GROUCHO
(Smiling coyly)
No, that wasn't it...

TRENTINO
Was it -- swine?

GROUCHO
(Same attitude as
above)
No... it was a seven letter word.

TRENTINO
(Thinking, then with
a broad smile)
Oh yes! -- UPSTART!

GROUCHO
That's it...

Takes gloves from Trentino's breast pocket and socks him
across the face... and puts them in his own breast pocket.
Trentino becomes apoplectic

TRENTINO
(Spluttering and
stuttering)
Why - er - Mrs. Teasdale - this is
an outrage! This man is impossible...
My course is clear... this means
war...
(Turns to go and turns
and yells to Groucho)
You RUNT!

GROUCHO
I still like UPSTART the best.

DX-MAN 06-15-10 08:17 PM

I'm just happy there are enough of us 50+ riders that we can utilize a sub-forum like this one! Most of the time, I enjoy being thought of as a bit of a mutant, but it helps to know I'm not the only one.


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