My Wife has a Bad Crash -- Riding Not Worth It?
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There's a reason why every product comes with a warning label. If not, some poor stupid fool will file a lawsuit over some issue......" What do ya mean I should use the screwdriver to remove ear wax?"
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Crashing hard is never fun.
Been there, done that; including a 30+ mph crash on our tandem and a 38 mph crash on my single.
At ages 80 and 78 we still ride as a duo several times a week and also ride my single; manage to rack up 5,000+ miles a year.
Have broken 6 ribs, shoulder/humerus in 2 places, lost a few teeth, punctured a lung and we don't even count road rash.
You don't do nuthin' . . . you die any way!
Have never considered MUPs as 'safe' place tvo ride. Prefer the real roads/highways.
Time heals all things . . . eventually.
Been there, done that; including a 30+ mph crash on our tandem and a 38 mph crash on my single.
At ages 80 and 78 we still ride as a duo several times a week and also ride my single; manage to rack up 5,000+ miles a year.
Have broken 6 ribs, shoulder/humerus in 2 places, lost a few teeth, punctured a lung and we don't even count road rash.
You don't do nuthin' . . . you die any way!
Have never considered MUPs as 'safe' place tvo ride. Prefer the real roads/highways.
Time heals all things . . . eventually.
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As others, sorry to hear of crashes, and especially painful one. However, I'm more like cyclintom than the rest. You need to do some more searching as to the cause. Could it have been blood sugar? Could hydration have had an effect? Could it have been just non-practiced at bike handling at different speeds, direction changes, and elevation changes?
It would be easy to think it's just an error, but there easily could be something medical or training involved that led to this event.
The MUP looks good and I don't recall any mention of animals darting across path. So it either has to be the rider didn't adjust enough for the trail or something medically threw the normal body functions out of wack.
I've had many other cyclists kid me about slowing down too much for curves and especially downhills, but they have had experiences laying down a bike. Hasn't happened to me yet. However motorcyclists have a saying, "it's not if you will lay down your bike, but when". Some sites have tutorials on how to get out of trouble when going down and others have lots of information on protective gear.
It would be easy to think it's just an error, but there easily could be something medical or training involved that led to this event.
The MUP looks good and I don't recall any mention of animals darting across path. So it either has to be the rider didn't adjust enough for the trail or something medically threw the normal body functions out of wack.
I've had many other cyclists kid me about slowing down too much for curves and especially downhills, but they have had experiences laying down a bike. Hasn't happened to me yet. However motorcyclists have a saying, "it's not if you will lay down your bike, but when". Some sites have tutorials on how to get out of trouble when going down and others have lots of information on protective gear.
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Thank God for that helmet. I had a terrible experience with a broken leg from roller skating. I knew I shouldn't have been doing it when I did. Because of the not walking for a year, I decided I would NEVER try that again. The price wasn't worth it to me, and it happened my first try. I knew there where too many variables that were wrong when I foolishly went to the rink.
That being said, I understand your wife's decision. Someday I might try rollerblading in a safer environment, but will start slow. She is not making a wrong decision. And after time heals some, she may change her mind.
Again, Thank God she was wearing a helmet.
I am glad to hear of her speedy recovery, and wish you the best of luck. Just remember that life is worth living when your stuck in a bubble. Something I try to remind myself every day. Good luck on your century.
That being said, I understand your wife's decision. Someday I might try rollerblading in a safer environment, but will start slow. She is not making a wrong decision. And after time heals some, she may change her mind.
Again, Thank God she was wearing a helmet.
I am glad to hear of her speedy recovery, and wish you the best of luck. Just remember that life is worth living when your stuck in a bubble. Something I try to remind myself every day. Good luck on your century.
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I'm not going to sue anyone, but I might send an email suggesting some warning signs ("Very sharp curves ahead").
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My husband (age 74) had a bad crash two years ago after hitting a loose chunk of asphalt. First I heard of it was when he called me at work from the emergency ward after the ambulance took him there (he's retired, I'm not). He had a concussion and was unconscious when they found him. A passing motorist saw him go over the handlebars and called 911.
I was uneasy with the idea of him riding alone out on the highway after that and still am. I really wish he'd find more riding partners, or at least do more rides in town when he can't find people to ride with. I'd even be willing to see him riding with a suspiciously good-looking divorcee, just so he wasn't by himself out there.
But, you know, people have passed away getting up from the sofa to go to the 'fridge, so life goes on. You can't pack yourself in cotton wool.
Glad to hear your wife is okay. In time she may decide to ride again. It will have to be on her own terms, and in her own time.
I was uneasy with the idea of him riding alone out on the highway after that and still am. I really wish he'd find more riding partners, or at least do more rides in town when he can't find people to ride with. I'd even be willing to see him riding with a suspiciously good-looking divorcee, just so he wasn't by himself out there.
But, you know, people have passed away getting up from the sofa to go to the 'fridge, so life goes on. You can't pack yourself in cotton wool.
Glad to hear your wife is okay. In time she may decide to ride again. It will have to be on her own terms, and in her own time.
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Good to hear things are going well.
The risks of a sedentary lifestyle are in many ways worse than what can happen riding a bike, which is tons more fun.
The risks of a sedentary lifestyle are in many ways worse than what can happen riding a bike, which is tons more fun.
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I think it's pretty clear what happened. She still doesn't remember the crash, but she remembers going down the hill and noticing the sharp turn. These turns are much sharper than encountered on regular roads.
I'm not going to sue anyone, but I might send an email suggesting some warning signs ("Very sharp curves ahead").
I'm not going to sue anyone, but I might send an email suggesting some warning signs ("Very sharp curves ahead").
Anyway, glad to hear everything is working out. The Redding area is definitely warmer than the north country.
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Al,
Sorry to hear about your wife's crash. Last year, I spent so much time off the bike because of crashes, my grandkids started calling me "Crash King." I know the apprehension involved as far as getting back on a bike after a bad crash.
When I first started back into riding, my wife bought two bicycles; one for my birthday and one for her. She hadn't ridden a bike since she was around 10 years old and tried desperately to maintain her balance while riding the bike without falling. She has bilateral hip replacements and was terrified of falling and re-injuring one or both of her hips. It got to the point where, after a few falls, she refused to get on the bike and try riding it again. I suggested that she look into a recumbent tadpole trike and now she rides all the time. It's something that you may want to bring up with her in the future, but I wouldn't rush it. It may take her a while to get over the crash to where she may consider anything that doesn't have four wheels and a motor.
Sorry to hear about your wife's crash. Last year, I spent so much time off the bike because of crashes, my grandkids started calling me "Crash King." I know the apprehension involved as far as getting back on a bike after a bad crash.
When I first started back into riding, my wife bought two bicycles; one for my birthday and one for her. She hadn't ridden a bike since she was around 10 years old and tried desperately to maintain her balance while riding the bike without falling. She has bilateral hip replacements and was terrified of falling and re-injuring one or both of her hips. It got to the point where, after a few falls, she refused to get on the bike and try riding it again. I suggested that she look into a recumbent tadpole trike and now she rides all the time. It's something that you may want to bring up with her in the future, but I wouldn't rush it. It may take her a while to get over the crash to where she may consider anything that doesn't have four wheels and a motor.
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Really sorry to hear about your wife's crash. I hope she is doing well.
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I really hope ur wife is feeling much better & has made a full recovery. any crash is scary, and mine still haunts me even tho its just a minor one. every time i catch myself narrowly missing a pothole or any cracks or ridges on the pavement, i realize just how much i actually rely on luck bcos no amount of vigilance can actually guarantee an absolutely risk free ride. but having said tht, i enjoy riding too much to stop so i still go out there, try my darnedest to ride safe and just take my chances.
But a major crash like ur wife's... now thats beyond scary and would take time to get over, if ever.
But a major crash like ur wife's... now thats beyond scary and would take time to get over, if ever.
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"Have any of you thought about quitting after something like this? Did you change your mind?"
No, I just cut back to more recreational riding.
No, I just cut back to more recreational riding.
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Steel: nearly a thousand years of metallurgical development
Aluminum: barely a hundred, which one would you rather have under your butt at 30mph?
My preferred bicycle brand is.......WORKSMAN CYCLES
I dislike clipless pedals on any city bike since I feel they are unsafe.
Originally Posted by krazygluon
Steel: nearly a thousand years of metallurgical development
Aluminum: barely a hundred, which one would you rather have under your butt at 30mph?