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Originally Posted by PeteHski
(Post 22807179)
We all know BF is full of contrasting opinions and debate, which is what makes it interesting and offers opportunities to learn new things and alternative perspectives. There is a huge knowledge base out there that can be tapped into if only we have an open-mind and are prepared to listen as well as talk. But the whole collective learning experience depends on everyone observing a few general guidelines:-
1. If you are not a recognised expert in a particular subject under debate then it's a good idea to do more listening and less arguing/asserting your own opinion as fact. 2. Be brave enough to admit when you are wrong. It's just a forum, so there's no need to be embarrassed or try to dig yourself out. We are all sometimes wrong and that's when we have an opportunity to learn the most. 3. When you are not 100% sure of something you are about to say then either a) say it with the proviso that you are not sure or b) don't say it at all. Never state your opinion as a fact unless you are 100% sure it is actually a fact. 4. Don't continue to argue a point of fact unless you can actually back it up with some factual evidence from a recognised source of expertise. 5. Don't move the goalposts around in an effort "not to be proven wrong" when you are losing an argument. Everyone can see what you did and you lose respect. 6. When evidence is presented in direct opposition to your own opinion, it is a not a good idea to re-quote that same evidence as if it does actually support your own opposing view. Again everyone sees it and you lose respect. If you do have genuine, credible evidence to the contrary then present that instead. 7. Don't be a dick about it. |
We have had plenty of good threads, even threads where people held various contrary opinions very strongly and expressed them strongly ... but if we are completely willing to ignore fact and champion opinion, we cease to communicate like intelligent beings and end up babbling like idiots or grunting like animals.
We can argue about a lot of stuff, but if we cannot agree about the reality we all share, even though we all perceive it differently ... Really, which of those guidelines stifle discussion? #1--Don't talk too much about stuff you don't know about. Sounds good. #2--When shown to be wrong, admit you are wrong. What is wrong whit that? If the only way we can have discussion is to insist that black is white and hot is cold, why bother having discussions? #3--Right? Understand what you know versus what you just believe, or what you heard some other person say but never investigated. How is that not a good idea for everywhere, all the time? #4--Don't insist on your stuff if you don't know your stuff, and if you insist on insisting, back it up. What, that is a bad idea? Not in my universe. 5--Don't move the goalposts, don't change the terms of the debate in mid-stream ... this is just a way to say "Discuss honestly." If expecting honesty stifles discussion ... Good. #6--Don't keep saying the same stuff over and over as if you think you can convince by repetition. if you have nothing to support your position, find something or admit it is untenable. #7--Speaks for itself. These are the sort of things a parent would teach his children (hopefully) or a teacher would teach to children. Before the last time I took a voluntary break because I was getting on the nerves of too many mods, a couple posters complained about the general tone of discussion on this site. On another site I frequent, people sometimes make jokes about this sit ... not pleasant jokes. I realized that I could do better ... and the site could be better. We can still have fun with Rydabent's bi-monthly repeated complaints about DF-riders staring at the front wheels, and the demand that everyone where spandex ... and plenty of other enjoyable (?) discussion. We still have Larrysellerz. We can still warn people about how carbon fiber assplodes. We don't need to be unpleasant tone another .... or beat a thread to death over whether removing the weight of a molecule makes a "significant" difference in bike performance. Bike forums can be a site worth visiting without featuring a bunch of halfwits bickering ... or so I believe. Probably a better site ..... If all it is is an endless stream of caustic posts by toxic people ... who cares if there are no discussions then? |
A very educational thread with so much cycling related content.:rolleyes:
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Originally Posted by wolfchild
(Post 22811646)
A very educational thread with so much cycling related content.:rolleyes:
Thank you, Mr. Wolfchild. You never fail to enrich a thread you visit. :D I think you should start more threads about the issues you find important or interesting. |
Originally Posted by wolfchild
(Post 22811646)
A very educational thread with so much cycling related content.:rolleyes:
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Originally Posted by PeteHski
(Post 22811675)
Well I think that your educational contributions to this forum speak for themselves. You are a well known troll around here.
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Originally Posted by Maelochs
(Post 22811602)
We have had plenty of good threads, even threads where people held various contrary opinions very strongly and expressed them strongly ... but if we are completely willing to ignore fact and champion opinion, we cease to communicate like intelligent beings and end up babbling like idiots or grunting like animals.
We can argue about a lot of stuff, but if we cannot agree about the reality we all share, even though we all perceive it differently ... Really, which of those guidelines stifle discussion? #1--Don't talk too much about stuff you don't know about. Sounds good. #2--When shown to be wrong, admit you are wrong. What is wrong whit that? If the only way we can have discussion is to insist that black is white and hot is cold, why bother having discussions? #3--Right? Understand what you know versus what you just believe, or what you heard some other person say but never investigated. How is that not a good idea for everywhere, all the time? #4--Don't insist on your stuff if you don't know your stuff, and if you insist on insisting, back it up. What, that is a bad idea? Not in my universe. 5--Don't move the goalposts, don't change the terms of the debate in mid-stream ... this is just a way to say "Discuss honestly." If expecting honesty stifles discussion ... Good. #6--Don't keep saying the same stuff over and over as if you think you can convince by repetition. if you have nothing to support your position, find something or admit it is untenable. #7--Speaks for itself. These are the sort of things a parent would teach his children (hopefully) or a teacher would teach to children. Before the last time I took a voluntary break because I was getting on the nerves of too many mods, a couple posters complained about the general tone of discussion on this site. On another site I frequent, people sometimes make jokes about this sit ... not pleasant jokes. I realized that I could do better ... and the site could be better. We can still have fun with Rydabent's bi-monthly repeated complaints about DF-riders staring at the front wheels, and the demand that everyone where spandex ... and plenty of other enjoyable (?) discussion. We still have Larrysellerz. We can still warn people about how carbon fiber assplodes. We don't need to be unpleasant tone another .... or beat a thread to death over whether removing the weight of a molecule makes a "significant" difference in bike performance. Bike forums can be a site worth visiting without featuring a bunch of halfwits bickering ... or so I believe. Probably a better site ..... If all it is is an endless stream of caustic posts by toxic people ... who cares if there are no discussions then? But it could be worse. There's a well known UK based mtb forum that I don't dare enter anymore because it was like a scene out of "One flew over the Cuckoo's nest"! |
Originally Posted by PeteHski
(Post 22811694)
There's a well known UK based mtb forum that I don't dare enter anymore because it was like a scene out of "One flew over the Cuckoo's nest"!
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Originally Posted by DonkeyShow
(Post 22808268)
Being right on the internet accomplishes nothing.
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Originally Posted by Maelochs
(Post 22811697)
Have you ever visited the Advocacy and Safety forum? Please don't ... for you own good ... :D
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Originally Posted by PeteHski
(Post 22811694)
Well said. I think most reasonable people would see these as sound guidelines for a rational debate. Forums are a great source of information, but the background noise can be deafening at times. Often I wonder if someone is just trolling or genuinely has other issues. I tend to fall for the trap of presuming most people are of sound, rational mind. But I have to conclude that this is a false presumption around here!
But it could be worse. There's a well known UK based mtb forum that I don't dare enter anymore because it was like a scene out of "One flew over the Cuckoo's nest"! BTW, it looks like my "Bike Myths" thread has been closed by the mods. I think that was a wise decision. I stopped following it a few days ago. |
Originally Posted by PeteHski
(Post 22811675)
Well I think that your educational contributions to this forum speak for themselves. You are a well known troll around here.
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Originally Posted by wolfchild
(Post 22811873)
Look at your first post in this thread, you use a word dick to describe anybody who doesn't agree with you..
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Originally Posted by tomato coupe
(Post 22811903)
He did not. However, many people would say that totally misrepresenting what someone posted falls under the category of “being a dick.”
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Originally Posted by wolfchild
(Post 22811938)
What exactly are we supposed to learn from this thread ?
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Originally Posted by wolfchild
(Post 22811938)
Why even bother to use derogatory words in a thread which is supposed to be educational and about learning ?
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Originally Posted by tomato coupe
(Post 22811945)
"Don't be a dick" seems like a good guideline to me.
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Originally Posted by smd4
(Post 22811953)
Because his vocabulary may be limited. Or he’s not very creative. Or both.
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Originally Posted by Maelochs
(Post 22811602)
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Really, which of those guidelines stifle discussion? #1--Don't talk too much about stuff you don't know about. Sounds good. #2--When shown to be wrong, admit you are wrong. What is wrong whit that? If the only way we can have discussion is to insist that black is white and hot is cold, why bother having discussions? #3--Right? Understand what you know versus what you just believe, or what you heard some other person say but never investigated. How is that not a good idea for everywhere, all the time? #4--Don't insist on your stuff if you don't know your stuff, and if you insist on insisting, back it up. What, that is a bad idea? Not in my universe. 5--Don't move the goalposts, don't change the terms of the debate in mid-stream ... this is just a way to say "Discuss honestly." If expecting honesty stifles discussion ... Good. #6--Don't keep saying the same stuff over and over as if you think you can convince by repetition. if you have nothing to support your position, find something or admit it is untenable. #7--Speaks for itself. Don't talk too much about stuff you don't know about. Sounds good. When shown to be wrong, admit you are wrong. What is wrong whit that? If the only way we can have discussion is to insist that black is white and hot is cold, why bother having discussions? Understand what you know versus what you just believe, or what you heard some other person say but never investigated. How is that not a good idea for everywhere, all the time? Don't insist on your stuff if you don't know your stuff, and if you insist on insisting, back it up. What, that is a bad idea? Don't move the goalposts, don't change the terms of the debate in mid-stream ... this is just a way to say "Discuss honestly." If expecting honesty stifles discussion ... Good. Don't keep saying the same stuff over and over as if you think you can convince by repetition. if you have nothing to support your position, find something or admit it is untenable. Learning, real learning, is a complex phenomenon. There are actual real college courses, and stuff like research in cognitive science that treat of it. Kind of like physics, in that sense, but not nearly as exact and often it is resistant to mathematical analysis. If it were easy, everyone would be well educated. We could churn out a population of critical thinkers in one generation. I don't come here to the General Cycling forum expecting much, any more. It has taken on a the nature of some kind of mean girls clique. I wasn't following along as it happened, but I do think the original purposes of "discussion" of general cycling topics for people who might have legitimate questions, as a learning tool, got lost in the transition to clever one liners and likes. Those are absolutely essential to the true internet experience. But let's be candid about how much they contribute to rational discussion, please. |
Originally Posted by genejockey
(Post 22812107)
It has the advantage of directness and brevity, and brevity is the soul of wit.
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It appears the "don't be a dick" guideline really isn't taking root.
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Originally Posted by Maelochs
(Post 22811602)
Really, which of those guidelines stifle discussion? #1--Don't talk too much about stuff you don't know about. Sounds good. #2--When shown to be wrong, admit you are wrong. What is wrong whit that? If the only way we can have discussion is to insist that black is white and hot is cold, why bother having discussions? #3--Right? Understand what you know versus what you just believe, or what you heard some other person say but never investigated. How is that not a good idea for everywhere, all the time? #4--Don't insist on your stuff if you don't know your stuff, and if you insist on insisting, back it up. What, that is a bad idea? Not in my universe. 5--Don't move the goalposts, don't change the terms of the debate in mid-stream ... this is just a way to say "Discuss honestly." If expecting honesty stifles discussion ... Good. #6--Don't keep saying the same stuff over and over as if you think you can convince by repetition. if you have nothing to support your position, find something or admit it is untenable. #7--Speaks for itself. |
Originally Posted by tomato coupe
(Post 22812141)
It appears the "don't be a dick" guideline really isn't taking root.
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Originally Posted by PeteHski
(Post 22807179)
7. Don't be a dick about it.
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I see the usual trolls have arrived. Like moths to a flame.
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