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Her car lightness is enabled by her marriage to a presumably wealthy doctor who takes care of whatever driving needs exist in their very large family as well as a willingness/ability to move to a location conducive to her bicycling inspiration.
She acknowledges though that her family size is her foremost impact on the environment. Her bicycling activities are insignificant small change as far as environmental issues are concerned.
She acknowledges though that her family size is her foremost impact on the environment. Her bicycling activities are insignificant small change as far as environmental issues are concerned.
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Kids who are raised in car-free households have very limited options. Most of them just spend all day playing video games, watching TV and sleeping because it's very difficult to get out of the house and go anywhere and see or participate in anything interesting without a vehicle...Extracurricular activities, team sport events and other fun activities require a vehicle...I just can't imagine stuffing 2-3 young kids or teenagers and all their hockey gear and other sporting equipment into a bicycle trailer and riding to the other side of town in pouring rain just so they can participate in some event or activity.
When I was young my parents had one vehicle that my dad drove to and from work. I rode my bike a lot. My friends and I had lots and lots of adventures on our own. We didn't play a lot of video games. If we wanted to do something we found a way. Even when it came to strapping a fishing rod to the top tube and riding to the park with stocked lakes. We have a great trail system throughout the river valley here and I probably spent a good part of my youth out of the house doing things. Growing up I never considered having limited options. I felt kinda bad for the kids who couldn't leave the house and do things on their own.
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This is an interesting take on things I have not encountered until now.
When I was young my parents had one vehicle that my dad drove to and from work. I rode my bike a lot. My friends and I had lots and lots of adventures on our own. We didn't play a lot of video games. If we wanted to do something we found a way. Even when it came to strapping a fishing rod to the top tube and riding to the park with stocked lakes. We have a great trail system throughout the river valley here and I probably spent a good part of my youth out of the house doing things. Growing up I never considered having limited options. I felt kinda bad for the kids who couldn't leave the house and do things on their own.
When I was young my parents had one vehicle that my dad drove to and from work. I rode my bike a lot. My friends and I had lots and lots of adventures on our own. We didn't play a lot of video games. If we wanted to do something we found a way. Even when it came to strapping a fishing rod to the top tube and riding to the park with stocked lakes. We have a great trail system throughout the river valley here and I probably spent a good part of my youth out of the house doing things. Growing up I never considered having limited options. I felt kinda bad for the kids who couldn't leave the house and do things on their own.
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...but in some cases a family of 8 with a professional income might have 3 or 4 cars, especially when the kids become teens - if they stick with one car through their family years, it will be a big difference from that. Plus any downsizing of her own family's footprint may be leveraged if her minor celebrity-hood and example inspire others to go car-light or even car-free.
You might as well predict about their future low environmental impact IF they should choose to live a life as close to hunter-gatherers as the law allows.
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I do not believe that citing extreme bicycling scenarios encourages many people to emulate such behavior. If someone asks for recommendations/suggestions on how to deal with their cycling concerns, whether it be hills, weather, distance, time, expense, safety, transporting a child (as in the OP), it doesn't likely inspire let alone help to cite the exploits of Tour de France pros , or around the world bicycle adventurers, or turn of 20th Century cycling/living conditions.
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This is an interesting take on things I have not encountered until now.
When I was young my parents had one vehicle that my dad drove to and from work. I rode my bike a lot. My friends and I had lots and lots of adventures on our own. We didn't play a lot of video games. If we wanted to do something we found a way. Even when it came to strapping a fishing rod to the top tube and riding to the park with stocked lakes. We have a great trail system throughout the river valley here and I probably spent a good part of my youth out of the house doing things. Growing up I never considered having limited options. I felt kinda bad for the kids who couldn't leave the house and do things on their own.
When I was young my parents had one vehicle that my dad drove to and from work. I rode my bike a lot. My friends and I had lots and lots of adventures on our own. We didn't play a lot of video games. If we wanted to do something we found a way. Even when it came to strapping a fishing rod to the top tube and riding to the park with stocked lakes. We have a great trail system throughout the river valley here and I probably spent a good part of my youth out of the house doing things. Growing up I never considered having limited options. I felt kinda bad for the kids who couldn't leave the house and do things on their own.
I was not an outdoorsy kid but I still "played outside." Up until maybe 12 or so. Then it was more video games. In the summer with more time it was video games, the pool, my neighbor's trampoline and badminton that occupied my time. And some occasionally babysitting. By 15 or so, I had a part time job. And stopped riding my bike because I didn't stay in the neighborhood anymore.
Now parents get reported to child protective services for letting 8 year olds walk to the park alone.
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They don't have to "emulate such [extreme] behaviour" because most of them don't have 6 kids.
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How old are you? For people born roughly after 1990, it is pretty uncommon to even have the freedom to play outside unsupervised. If you are older, it was probably OK and encouraged. Even if you had video games at home.
I was not an outdoorsy kid but I still "played outside." Up until maybe 12 or so. Then it was more video games. In the summer with more time it was video games, the pool, my neighbor's trampoline and badminton that occupied my time. And some occasionally babysitting. By 15 or so, I had a part time job. And stopped riding my bike because I didn't stay in the neighborhood anymore.
Now parents get reported to child protective services for letting 8 year olds walk to the park alone.
I was not an outdoorsy kid but I still "played outside." Up until maybe 12 or so. Then it was more video games. In the summer with more time it was video games, the pool, my neighbor's trampoline and badminton that occupied my time. And some occasionally babysitting. By 15 or so, I had a part time job. And stopped riding my bike because I didn't stay in the neighborhood anymore.
Now parents get reported to child protective services for letting 8 year olds walk to the park alone.
I have a daughter who is 13 now. When she was younger (about 9 years old) she wanted to take the train by herself to school. One day we almost got separated while boarding the train, so I came up with a little drill. The protocol I thought up was if we get separated, the first person gets off at the next stop and waits at a particular place on the platform for the next to meet them. The day arrived when we decided we should go through our drill. So, I waited on the train platform and watched her get on the train, and watched it drive away. I felt so scared but I didn't show it (I tried not to at least). It seemed like an eternity before the next train came, even if it was only 5 minutes. I got on and I was pretty anxious about getting to the next stop to meet her where we agreed.
When the train pulled into the station, I saw her watching for me. When she saw me she came running up with a big smile. The look on her face was awesome. She felt proud, and I was proud of her. We had worked out a plan that would keep both of us from panicking if we ever got separated. And I learned the issue was very likely more about my anxiety than her actual safety.
Of course, that led her to questions within a week about doing the whole thing by herself, and then weeks later about going to the mall with her friends. Those things didn't happen for a while, but slowly she got more freedom as I got more comfortable. As a compromise I would get off the train one stop from her school and meet her after she arrived at the school. She'd send me on errands to Starbucks while she was taking that one stop alone. We did that every week day for a long time while she was in elementary school. She gained confidence, and learned that I trusted her. And I gained a bit of confidence too.
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I guess I should add too that my mom wasn't the type to just let us get away with everything like feral children. VERY much the opposite. We're from Northern Ireland, and there motherhood is like a martial art. She was strict and, at times, terrifying. Think of Mrs Olson on Little House On The Prairie but with an Irish accent and the skills of a ninja.
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I am 38, so a bit younger than you. But my childhood was more similar. I could go outside, ride my bike. I didn't get to use transit alone, but I didn't live by useful transit, I grew up in suburbia. I chat with younger colleagues, and all of their play time was scheduled! They couldn't relate to the idea of just running over to a neighbors house, or gathering up the kids on your street to play!
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I guess I should add too that my mom wasn't the type to just let us get away with everything like feral children. VERY much the opposite. We're from Northern Ireland, and there motherhood is like a martial art. She was strict and, at times, terrifying. Think of Mrs Olson on Little House On The Prairie but with an Irish accent and the skills of a ninja.
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The article doesn't really explain how she "does anything" by bike by herself and six children other than loading the kids in/on the immense cargo bike and taking them for a ride or to the park. I was wondering what she does with 6 children that small and/or the cargo hauler when she goes inside a building to go shopping, run errands, doctor appointments, or anything else more involved than a playground.
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The article doesn't really explain how she "does anything" by bike by herself and six children other than loading the kids in/on the immense cargo bike and taking them for a ride or to the park. I was wondering what she does with 6 children that small and/or the cargo hauler when she goes inside a building to go shopping, run errands, doctor appointments, or anything else more involved than a playground.
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The article doesn't really explain how she "does anything" by bike by herself and six children other than loading the kids in/on the immense cargo bike and taking them for a ride or to the park. I was wondering what she does with 6 children that small and/or the cargo hauler when she goes inside a building to go shopping, run errands, doctor appointments, or anything else more involved than a playground.
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The article doesn't really explain how she "does anything" by bike by herself and six children other than loading the kids in/on the immense cargo bike and taking them for a ride or to the park. I was wondering what she does with 6 children that small and/or the cargo hauler when she goes inside a building to go shopping, run errands, doctor appointments, or anything else more involved than a playground.
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Haha. Yea. It really was a little bit of fluf, wasn't it? There wasn't a lot of content other than "handling six kids is hard" but it didn't seem to be any harder for her than any one else herding the many children. Your right though, she didn't speak to actually doing any thing other than a museum trip and some grocery shopping, but they only listed like four or five tags that she bought. It may or may not have been a full shopping trip. It didn't sound like it thoug.
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If a magazine article allegedly provides a shining example to inspire others of how "with six kids and no car, this mom does it all by bike," it would seem appropriate (in scope) to mention what it is that she can do, besides go for a ride around the neighborhood..
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She lives in a cycling utopia of Portlandia which definitely makes it a lot easier to do this kind of a thing. I've never seen anybody ever do that here in my suburbs where I live. She also isn't anti-car, anti-oil, anti-paved roads, anti-technology like few of the posters on this list. She also has a very wealthy husband on whom she depends on for maintaining her lifestyle.
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She lives in a cycling utopia of Portlandia which definitely makes it a lot easier to do this kind of a thing. I've never seen anybody ever do that here in my suburbs where I live. She also isn't anti-car, anti-oil, anti-paved roads, anti-technology like few of the posters on this list. She also has a very wealthy husband on whom she depends on for maintaining her lifestyle.
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i would assume she does the same as if she had a car. She leaves the vehicle(s) outside and walks in. If she can't manage the six kids inside a store or medical office it doesn't matter how she got there. And if she shops in bulk I guess the stoker kids just have to pedal harder, or she goes to the store a bit more often.
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She lives in a cycling utopia of Portlandia which definitely makes it a lot easier to do this kind of a thing. I've never seen anybody ever do that here in my suburbs where I live. She also isn't anti-car, anti-oil, anti-paved roads, anti-technology like few of the posters on this list. She also has a very wealthy husband on whom she depends on for maintaining her lifestyle.
Other than the bike park it felt analogous to any parent with a kid loading up the car, just like how I grew up.
Some of the parents even have have that "you have to keep your hands on the vehicle" rule while packing up so the kid doesn't run off into the parking lot.
Now that I am thinking about this, are there any bike trailers that double as strollers?
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But quite the appropriate question to ask on a list presumably about living car free, especially when it is stated on this list that she is an example of someone who can do it all by bike with six kids.
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I am not saying it isn't a valid question, but not for a bike focused article. That sounds like an awesome set of questions for a parent focused publication. In fact it would be great if bike PR people pitched parent focused stories to parenting media about living with kids and having a bike as primary transport.