Yes, that is true. I've met, and had the pleasure of working with and going to school with, some very nice, well-mannered young men.

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Most of the women I ride with are faster than me. No matter. I'd still sit down and have a beer with them. Is that OK?

double post.

Not that old, yet. (but starting to fall apart anyway!)

I guess it wasn't obvious that paragraph was tongue-in-cheek?

BTW, there is indeed a difference between acting crudely and just having normal male thoughts. It certainly is unacceptable for men to make rude comments, say, about what they'd like to do to a woman they just saw: even if it would be "normal" for them to think such a thought to themselves!

I've worked with and gone to school with a lot of guys ... the Engineering Tech field is full of them. I've also ridden with a lot of guys. The places I've lived haven't exactly been overflowing with female cyclists. And quite a number of them have expressed to me that when a woman joins their group, they feel as though they have to change their behaviour. They feel like they shouldn't fart, swear, and talk about women we happen to be cycling past or who happen to come into the office or whatever.





I've had varying reactions when I go into bicycle shops. Some places are fine. These usually employ women. Others vary between being quite rude to ignoring me completely. One place was notorious for ignoring female cyclists.


I've found touring clubs to be quite good when it comes to female members. I've been a member of three touring clubs and they've all got a good mix of males and females, and make females welcome.

I was also a member of my local Randonneuring club in Alberta ... and that group didn't want females involved unless the female was equally as fast as the guys. Having a female out there on the course meant that someone might have to look after her ... can't have a female riding through the mountains alone at night ... so they'd rather just not bother with females, or any sort of slower rider for that matter. They kept talking about getting more people involved ... but if anyone slower joined, they'd leave that person in the dust and make him or her feel very unwelcome. This from a club that's not a racing club doing events that are not races.

That probably depends on how much one has! Here's a very interesting show on testosterone: http://www.thisamericanlife.org/Radi...spx?sched=1230 (you can listen free on the web - click "full episode" - or download as podcast for a small fee).

In particular, the segment with Griffin Hansbury, a former "radical feminist lesbian," who became a man will be enlightening to any woman out there who wants to learn a little more about what its like to have a bunch of testosterone. I think this should be required listening for every woman!

To give you a little hint about it, there's a part where he's explaining that before testosterone treatments, she (at that point) would be on the subway and see a woman and think, "oh, she's attractive...what's that book she's reading...i'd like to meet her..." a whole narrative would go through her head. After she began taking the testosterone and becoming a male, there was no narritive, no language at all. He'd see a woman with an attractive quality and basically his mind would just be flooded with images of sex! That ladies, is what it's like to be a man!

I figure most guys are busy having normal male thoughts, but I also figure that what distinguishes a mature male from an immature one is that the mature male knows to keep his mouth shut and typing fingers still when he does have normal male thoughts ... and the immature one just blurts things out.

Agreed!

(fwiw, i think some of these guys are just posting "is she hot?" to be the first one to say it, like it's the new catch phrase around here. you know, like "flip it," or "pics or it didn't happen," or whatever else people always write).

While there's much I could quote and comment on on this thread, I'll just start with this.

Much of it I think is maturity, when it comes to both men and women. It just depends on where you go. Overall, though, I do tend to believe that in places like BF and elsewhere (I've observed it in both with regards to women), men tend to be less mature on which of their thoughts they choose to vocalize. That being said, I've drawn cat-calls occasionally (as a clyde no doubt! I'm not really in much way attractive in that regard) from women while I was out on the bike. So (and I would have to defer to women who are brave enough to admit their thoughts), I would say the thoughts are there for most people in regard to the opposite sex. It's just maybe that men tend to be less socialized on when to speak their thoughts and not speak their thoughts, and perhaps that is divided by age, marriage, and genuine contact with women as people and not as sex objects. There's a time and place for such comments and they usually are not out in public.

Much is probably perspective on hearing those things as well. I understand that most women really don't find such comments welcome. Yet I find in observation that a lot of men tend to take them with a degree of flattery. As for me in the example above (women saying things in public), I tended to think it a bit wierd, unwelcome in a sense, but also a bit flattering. The unwelcome part, because in a certain way, I would rather have them come from someone who knows me and can appreciate me. Again the proper social context.

A lot of this, I'm sure, is due to ego. Maybe socially ingrained, maybe otherwise. As for me (the only one I can really speak for), I notice that if there is anything that can be equal on a non-competitive basis as to ability, it's cycling. So a woman can do better than me? So what. As long as I'm achieving what I need to do for myself while I'm out on the bike, I'm pleased.

Besides, the world is much better when there's variety and all of us (men and women) are out there doing things. I find it interesting to read about women out there doing cycling and achieving (yes including the women on BF, but also competitively). Maybe it's because it's not so common-place. If I got anything out of such threads like the "Hot Cycling Body" one, it's a little more awareness about some of the women who are out there doing it.

Speaking of this, I got a question, but I'll make another thread of it.

that happens in most other male dominated areas. it's a shame some women feel they have to stoop to the level of the lowest of the males. i don't like vulgar boorish males. i don't like it when someone who isn't one pretends to be one. Be yourself. if people don't like you, they can go f themselves.

Do we?

It would be nice if there were more women in cycling, but it will always be 90% male. Any sport that's 90% male will have a men's locker room element to it.

Oh well. Another advantage to being Gay I can never avail myself of.

What sport isn't mostly male?

The premise of the argument is fallacious.

Why do we want or need more women? 1) Increase market share. 2) To improve the dating pool

Seems both are typical male thought anyway. I question the OP's motives.

There is nothing wrong with sexual expression and it has nothing to do with maturity level.

Who appointed you the judge of what is a normal thought and what defines maturity?

SOME guys are just asses.......

Such a load of ****. I see plenty of women respond the same way to pictures of brad pitt, or some other guy without a shirt.

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Field Hockey (at least in the US)
Synchronized Swimming
Baton Twirling
Cheerleading

Wrong. "Hormones" are no excuse for not being a pig. "Was she hot?" is one of MANY behaviors that are threatening to women in sports, not just in cycling. Men in sport are VERY good at letting women know that they are not allowed to participate for their own gratification, and they certainly can't expect to be taken seriously as riders or athletes in their own right. Instead the message, both here and on the road, is that women who cycle are there to be appreciated by men as sexual objects. Gee, what a welcoming environment!

I'm just disgusted by this excuse - that your testosterone completely intervenes in your brain functions and commands your fingers to type "Was she hot?", then click the "Post Reply" button.

You're a human friggin' being. So control yourself. The real problem is not "testosterone," it's that you don't want to be seen as potentially considering women to be, you know, fellow human beings with opinions and feelings and stuff that don't revolve around making you happy or turning you on.

In

Not for me.

It's gonna be a loooooooong winter!

Women fart?

By the way, for those saying that cycling and other sports "will always" be dominated by men: there's no reason that this has to be true unless you want it to be true. Which I suspect is the case, which is sad, but culture will move forward without you. Rowing is a great example of a sport that, in the United States anyway, is near parity. There is nothing organic about male-dominated participation in sports.

Other examples: curling, ice skating (including speed skating), track and field, skiing... all of these sports, if they are not AT parity in competition, are closer to it than cycling is. Why is that? This "sports will always be dominated by men" idea looks a bit weak.

Interesting subject. Yes, this forum is hostile towards women. Yes, the sport is made up mostly of men, but that doesn't mean that you have to actively chase women away.

I have learned that hot women can get away with all sorts of bad behavior. So thank you, Men of RC, for teaching me that I don't need to be polite anymore (at least not towards men). I've been doing it wrong all these years. :rolleyes:

Seriously, though, why do you accept poor behavior from attractive women just because they're attractive? I don't understand this. I don't let a good-looking man get away with crap, just because he's hot.

I don't accept poor behavior from anyone. That said, I'm from Jersey...want to hook up?

I have never seen a woman on BF respond in a sexist manor such as that when the subject of the thread is in a serious tone. Your reply's such as " I'm from Jersey, Wanna hook up" are no better. Posters such as your self are what keep many of the females off of the road forum.

you are kidding right? it was a joke.

True, but luckily that just made me laugh. I saw it as humor, other women may not.