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Old 11-29-10, 12:49 PM
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Originally Posted by umd
I wasn't there. Was the OP an ass for tailgaiting?
A brief read of many of the replies on this thread will give you that answer.

Look, I don’t like folks I don’t know riding up on my ass and drafting or whatever any more than the next guy/gal. But I still have enough sense to not want anyone to get hurt because I felt put out for a few seconds.
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Originally Posted by Snapperhead
A brief read of many of the replies on this thread will give you that answer.
You have an opinion about the two ahead, so I want to know what you think of the OP's own actions.

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Look, I don’t like folks I don’t know riding up on my ass and drafting or whatever any more than the next guy/gal. But I still have enough sense to not want anyone to get hurt because I felt put out for a few seconds.
You are still missing the point.
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Perhaps not everyone calls out potholes? Maybe the riders weren't being discourteous, but just following their norms? Perhaps it's a bit presumptive to think all riders call out typically encountered obstacles such as pot holes, manhole covers, etc.
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Is this discussion getting a little lame, or what?

Hopefully the OP's over this. Obviously, not everyone is.
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Originally Posted by Hermes
And.... Where were you looking at the time?
He was making eye contact and saying 'hi' instead of looking ahead at what was at the bottom of the hill.
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Originally Posted by umd
You have an opinion about the two ahead, so I want to know what you think of the OP's own actions.

You are still missing the point.
Well maybe if you'd tell me the point then I wouldn't miss it. BTW, what if I was calling you an ass?!
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Originally Posted by Snapperhead
Well maybe if you'd tell me the point then I wouldn't miss it. BTW, what if I was calling you an ass?!
Your missing the point that calling out potholes isn't an expected behavior on the road, especially if you don't know who you are riding with.
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Originally Posted by Snapperhead
Well maybe if you'd tell me the point then I wouldn't miss it.
The point has been repeated many times in the thread, but in it's simplest form, it can be summarized by, "different people have different thresholds for pointing crap out."

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BTW, what if I was calling you an ass?!
Then I would report you.
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Originally Posted by Snapperhead
OP, I hope by now you've realized that you shouldn't expect any common courtesy from anyone on a bike. Actually, after reading through most of this thread, I don’t think I’d expect any common courtesy from most of these folks anytime at all!

That being said, if it were me, I would've alerted you to the potholes, it was just the right thing to do.
If you don't expect "common" courtesy from anyone, then what you're expecting does not seem to be common- you're expecting uncommon courtesy. If I'm driving my car down the freeway, I don't expect people in front of me to point out potholes as they drive. If they do, that's fine, but it's not expected and not common.
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Originally Posted by umd
Then I would report you.
So your famous quote should be changed to say "you can say ass, but you can't call someone an ass"
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Originally Posted by umd
The point has been repeated many times in the thread, but in it's simplest form, it can be summarized by, "different people have different thresholds for pointing crap out."
It wasn't crap, it was hole in the freaking road.

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Then I would report you.
I'm sorry, I didn't realize we were posting in the 1st graders forum.
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Originally Posted by StephenH
If you don't expect "common" courtesy from anyone, then what you're expecting does not seem to be common- you're expecting uncommon courtesy. If I'm driving my car down the freeway, I don't expect people in front of me to point out potholes as they drive. If they do, that's fine, but it's not expected and not common.
And that's just where we disagree. On a bike, I'd expect someone to use common courtesy and point out a hole in the road that might cause me to crash. I only expect it because I know I would do it myself regardless of the situation.
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Originally Posted by travkat
Had an interesting experience today while riding in my new local area of North San Diego County. I am still new to the area and as such don't know all the roads well. Today on my ride down the coast while descending a small grade I caught up with two cyclists. Due to traffic and parked cars I didn't try to pass as it was unsafe and I didn't need to speed by. So here is my beef. I let the riders know I was behind them and made eye contact etc. Once we reached the bottom of the hill both riders split to avoid a giant set of potholes and neither one pointed it out. I ended up almost eating asphalt at 27mph due to a lack of common cycling etiquette. Am I wrong in thinking it was kind of lame on the part of the cyclists up front?
How do you know that they knew you were there? You spoke to them? You can't just assume they knew you were there and expect them to go out of their way to make your life peachy.

Sure, it would be nice, but you aren't entitled to anything other than your own responsibility to protect your front wheel, particularly in your scenario, where you are riding with complete strangers.

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I wouldn't have called out the hole if you were not riding with me.

Does everyone here call out holes and yell, "stopping" when riding by yourselves?
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Originally Posted by Snapperhead
And that's just where we disagree. On a bike, I'd expect someone to use common courtesy and point out a hole in the road that might cause me to crash. I only expect it because I know I would do it myself regardless of the situation.
So. You're going down a hill pretty fast. All of a sudden a set of potholes comes up. You swerve to avoid them. Now, while you're busy swerving for your life, there might possibly be someone behind you. Do you take a hand off the bars, putting yourself in danger, to warn them? Or are you kind of busy trying not to crash yourself?
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Originally Posted by StephenH
If I'm driving my car down the freeway, I don't expect people in front of me to point out potholes as they drive. If they do, that's fine, but it's not expected and not common.
Funny enough, sometimes after rides, I've tried to do that

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It wasn't crap, it was hole in the freaking road.
Sorry, didn't realize you were there

Still applies. Different people have different threshold for "pointing."

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So your famous quote should be changed to say "you can say ass, but you can't call someone an ass"
Originally Posted by Snapperhead
I'm sorry, I didn't realize we were posting in the 1st graders forum.
I expect consistency of moderation.
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Originally Posted by kimconyc
I wouldn't have called out the hole if you were not riding with me.

Does everyone here call out holes and yell, "stopping" when riding by yourselves?
I call "Typing" and "mousing" out very loudly right before I post. I wouldn't want to startle anyone behind me.
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Also, OP, did you manage to call/point out the "hole" for the person behind you?

If not, you are entirely part of the bike-weenie circle jerk hypocrisy.
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Looks like "the gang's" all here!



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Originally Posted by Snapperhead
I'm sorry, I didn't realize we were posting in the 1st graders forum.
He's been banned for lesser crimes, and "personal attacks" are expressly prohibited. Just saying.


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And that's just where we disagree. On a bike, I'd expect someone to use common courtesy and point out a hole in the road that might cause me to crash. I only expect it because I know I would do it myself regardless of the situation.
You're kind and naive. Some day you will learn that the vast majority of people have much less courtesy than you, and that expecting it would be playing some bad odds.
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Originally Posted by Nerull
So. You're going down a hill pretty fast. All of a sudden a set of potholes comes up. You swerve to avoid them. Now, while you're busy swerving for your life, there might possibly be someone behind you. Do you take a hand off the bars, putting yourself in danger, to warn them? Or are you kind of busy trying not to crash yourself?
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Originally Posted by kimconyc
Also, OP, did you manage to call/point out the "hole" for the person behind you?

If not, you are entirely part of the bike-weenie circle jerk hypocrisy.
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Also, when people start swerving, I personally take that as a clue there might be something there. Perhaps you should too.
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Originally Posted by Nerull
Also, when people start swerving, I personally take that as a clue there might be something there. Perhaps you should too.
Too busy looking at the cyclo-computer, trying to hit 88mph.
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Originally Posted by Nerull
Also, when people start swerving, I personally take that as a clue there might be something there. Perhaps you should too.
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