would anyone have one that they dont use? and would be willing to give to me?
it would be much appreciated.
and if not whats the cheapest one i can get?

i'm sure you can find one for $15 from an LBS if you don't really care about looks or quality.

i recommend Salsa SUL's

i like the salsa one.
but i dont know what site to get it from?

i really like the 3ttt mutant quill stem.
but cant find a site that sells them either
(for a good price)