I don't think polished silver (or "bright silver" as the retailers seem to call them) deep v's are "edgy" at all. On the contrary, I think they blend in with almost any frame, and can either class up a nice, clean build or actually help to balance out an otherwise "loud" one.
Either way, I think you can't go wrong with the silver rims. They're quite pretty.
Here's a nice clean build from another user called vetuv
And mine, which I just finished building up the other day. It still looks kind of loud, but the silver veeps keep it from being way too TARCK (IMHO)