First thanks for all the advice and suggestions.
A few of you, have written about handle bar rise, angle of the sweep. I figured it would be easier to just post pix so you could see.
I've moved the seat as far back as I can, it was only about 1/2" further back. I was also able to ride w/o holding on, with a little practice I could go about 10-15 seconds.

Seat before

seat after

Handle bar looking down from the the seat

Stem angle

Side view-whole bike