ok well, maybe i should define oogling..as in not staring...as in having feelings and wanting and trying to do something about it. I don't care if guys want my girl, shes with me...and thats that, I don't need guys that are in to her and taking her kindness the wrong way. Shes super nice, I am too. I talk to a lot of girls and have many female friends. there have been times when signals were mixed and confused and quickly needed to be corrected. it happens, but those are girls I no longer spend time with unless she or other friends are around. Just don't need the drama...


anybody can say how they would ideally act in such situations...I just try to be honest with myself in knowing that I WOULD have a problem with it, not for my insecurities, because she makes me feel very secure, but for the sheer fact that somebody else was treading on my grounds...like i said before...i tend to be very alpha male when it comes to things like that. I don't care if people look down on me for that...i see it as simple nature. I understand that there are other males who are more alpha than me...and im not afraid to back away lol...darwinism...don't **** with **** that can kill you. either way...if somebody is going to cheat they are going to cheat...you can't stop that...that usually occurs when something is already wrong in the relationship...if that's the case then you need something to end it anyways...cut your losses and move on.