it seems to me that most people who have a dismissive or abstinent view of alcohol have personally experienced significant negative consequences as the result of alcohol abuse, either from themselves or someone close to them.

that's fair.

...but the rest of us should be able to enjoy that glass of red wine with dinner or beer with your co-workers at lunch without hearing your story, even tirade in some cases.

It's tiring.

Anyone who is of drinking age in this society (socal) is well aware of the harmful affects of alcohol, both physically and emotionally.