Part of the problem may be me. I am extremely athletic. I am good at nearly every thing I try. Baseball: starting pitcher/ best relief pitcher in college. golf: 5 handicap, skiing: can out ski 95% of everyone on the slopes even at my age. Softball: I play with guys half my age. Dirt bikes: was top-5 in my racing classes.
But when I'm with them I don't "show out". I try to do everything in a manner it doesn't show them up or discourage them but I think THEY THINK they are horrible at things they try, although they can ski pretty well and enjoy it when we go. How do you motivate the unmotiveatable? I'm at the point of giving up on them altogether and maybe that is the best thing to do. Go do what I want to do and let them figure out they are missing out.
Thanks for the chance to rant.