I had a wife like that once! Thankfully she divorced me 17 years ago and I married a woman I met in the local bike club. Huge difference! My whole life is much happier, I live in a better place and lead a better life overall. It's wonderful, really.
My present wife rides to work, she does club rides and occasionally rides a double century with me (she'd ridden 23 doubles). We go on cycling vacations and generally live a very cycling-centric life. True, I wish I hadn't made that first mistake, but I've been very happy with my 2nd wife choice. My advice to my younger self would have been: Marry a cyclist!
Rick / OCRR