Originally Posted by
bigbadwullf
That is why I put that in there. TO put a light on me. Believe me I can see your point. I could easily just have left that out and not brought attention to myself but I think that is some of the problem. I don't think "I'm all that". Trust me. You have to know me. I am very understated when it comes to that stuff(in person). Except for posting it here and I knew there would be a backlash for doing it but... I think it has some bearing on the subject.
Being that accomplished in that many physical activities requires a certain personality. But even if you truly aren't putting out that vibe, I assume your wife knows about all of those accomplishments AND knows that you are highly competative. I would not be surprised if that is a big part of the issue.