Knowone made a derisive comment... ( I had to stop and look up derisive before I could comment on it... LOL) So far its been a delightful discussion about people you love and the little things that sometimes can cause a ripple in relationships. I hope the Op is gaining some insight or ideas about how to tackle his dilemma of not being able to share something he loves with the one he loves. Gees I'm gettin mushy... LOL!