My wife and I joke about being "divorce-proof".

She rarely accompanies on any of my activities yet she's never failed to encourage me to enjoy my activities and chase my goals. I'm probably pushing my limit next weekend - I have a brevet and it ends on my birthday. In response to that news, she stated that she was going on a 2-day "date" with her boyfriend.

Me worry? She's a court-appointed special-advocate (CASA) for a 5 year old foster boy - that'll be her date for the weekend. My wife has a fulfilling life - we spend a lot of time together but we recognize that we each have interests outside of cycling.