Miss Kenton,
If he is at OTS in Montgomery let me know if you want our email and phone number for a close by friendly shoulder.

O.P.
Our 2 children are mainly independent, the daughter is in Atlanta and our son is readying to start as a missionary in Canada and is working 2 jobs to save money and pay us some rent and board until then. No need for us to support them we offered our son the option of staying here after college he payed for so he could save as much cash as possible.

I'd take them back in a heart beat unless they were addicts or law breakers. They are my blood and my children. Thankfully they aren't needy. You are doing the right thing Doohickie.