I agree. Go for the brightest, most obnoxious, reflective striped, ANSI neon yellow jacket you can find. I want motorists to see me and I want every advantage I can get. Here is one place to try, but I doubt their stuff is made in the US:
www.alertshirt.com
I like to dress in layers with the bright windbreaker on top. Then as I ride and heat up I remove the underneath layers.