Originally Posted by islenska
i completely understand! do you think its just in out heads or do you think its real? i'm just waiting for the "perceived resentment" to be used as a secret weapon that comes back to haunt me when i least expect it.
you ever worry about that?
All the time!!! I went out on a "longer" ride last Sunday. I was feeling good so I decided to stretch 50 k to 100 K. Of course I called at the half way mark. You could just hear the "quiet" resentment. My strategy is to just be good, as good as I can be, around the house, do my share and more (It won't kill me) and send my significant other off to visit friends and family whenever possible and wanted to build some "equity".
Ultimately I want to be able to bike together, but short of starting on a tandem, I don't see much more than the local bike trail.
The percieved resentment is always there waiting to be fired, you just have to build up enough defence, or good will, or karma to have something to fight it with.
Otherwise everything is peachy! No really. Did I tell you I'm getting an indoor trainer to go with my rollers.
