Originally Posted by Wind 'N Snow
... building a karma buffer zone, and seeing just how far you can push without doing any damage to the relationship...
lmao...karma buffer zone...that is priceless!
Originally Posted by Wind 'N Snow
.Trust me, for years, in several relationships, I kept quiet, assuming that my partner would figure it out....nope. Either they didn't or they did, but pretented they didn't to keep the advantage.
this is a tricky pitfall of the karma buffer zone strategy -- is there a counter for it?
Originally Posted by Wind 'N Snow
.If you can't do this, you will run into problems down the road - either by nurturing a delicious and lasting hatred for each other, or by wandering off to ride on someone else's saddle.
do you mean what i think you mean?
Originally Posted by Wind 'N Snow
.That is the second trick. Always take the blame. It may increase the seathing resentment boiling up inside you, but it builds Karma, and others, if you need allies, will notice.
allies...again, priceless.
man, you give new meaning to the saying "all's fair in love and war."
(and cycling)