Well i have changed the strategy on my bike and the remark of Grand Bois kept me thinking and i decided to do easy on the polishing and that way i can keep the spokes.
After reading the reply's i have treated some of them with the alu foil method (bizar, but it works) and will finish of with linseed oil to give it some protective layer against further rusting.
So far everybody thanks a lot for sharing your knowledge it's much appreciated.