Originally Posted by
Jandro
Calling you out, specifically? That wasn't my intention, sorry if it seemed like I was!
If my gf and I have plans at a specific time, of course I'll be on time. I was more referring to the times that it's a more casual set up. Specific example that I've had: "Hey, I'm going on a 50-60mi bike ride, I should be done around 1 and then we can figure out what we want to do with our evening." Ride goes long, I want to lunch with ride buddies, so I text saying "Hey, going to be home around 3, shower, and head out." This has happened a handful of times and it's never been an issue. My apologies usually get a response like the following: "No worries, baby! No rush, enjoy lunch! [sometimes: added: "I'm out with so-and-so, see you soon"].
Ah, word. Glad we're on the same page
As a cyclist, I deal with the "see you after my ride" situations all the time, like pretty much every weekend. Those r understandably flexible.
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