I have twin daughters (age 27) and they are completely different from one another.

Daughter 1 graduated college with a Masters in Education, moved out, and is now engaged to a real nice guy (wedding date next spring). She is doing really well for herself and is a 3rd grade elementary teacher in northern VA.

Daughter 2 attended same college as daughter 1. She was working on a degree in music (i.e. become a professional musician (French Horn) or take necessary classes to be like daughter 1, but become a music teacher at a school. Sadly and tragically, daughter 2 got mixed up with a disgusting, sleazebag, pothead, boyfriend - who I absolutely can't stand! So, daughter 2 decided against better judgement to move out and move in with the scumbucket. My wife and I had plenty of arguments and fights with daughter 2, and just said, "Okay...whatever...it's your life..." and let her go. Daughter 2 ended up about $20/k in debt thanks to sleazebag and his drug habit. The most unforgivable thing is that daughter 2 had to drop out of college because of him. They got evicted from their apartment because he wasn't paying his share of the rent (buying weed and coke with the money) and daughter 2's credit rating got trashed as well. Long story short, daughter 2 had to move back home again and start over. She is working at minimum wage in an arts & crafts store, and just won't see the writing on the wall. Believe it or not, as shocking as this sounds... Would you believe that daughter 2 is still involved with the P.O.S. sleazebag?!? I have done everything I can short of myself ending up in jail (you know what I mean). It's just heartbreaking... It's has driving a wedge between my wife and I as well. My wife has a kinder heart than I do. She sides with daughter 2, and I just want to load some buckshot into my 12ga shotgun and go after him! But, I realized that there are better ways of handling things. I calmed down, and as per my avatar picture, I contacted numerous Freemason brothers (many of whom are retired police officers, FBI agents, etc...). I gave them his name, address, phone number, and license plate of his car. I told them, "Do what you wish with this info..." after I told them the whole story just like I did here.