Disadvantages of more than 8 speeds at the rear:
Tighter cogs - so less room for error when shifting. If using friction - harder to get it right by feel. If using indexed - cable friction, housing play, or any amount of RD misalignment causes poor shifting. 8 speed is more robust.
More expensive parts.
Advantages of more than 8 speeds:
Quicker rear shifting.
More tightly spaced gears.
As far as longevity goes, I have failed to measure any measurable

difference in both chain, rear sprockets and front chainring life betweeen 8 and 10 speed stuff.