Good points from everyone! No, the BIL does not exercise or have any program. He is a pilot of small aircraft and I ask him if he was going to quit flying. NO response to that one.
My wife and I have been taking evening meals over just to make the transition easier for both of them. BIL response... " I could get use to this". My BIL really is a good guy! He's just a little pent up about things and losing his routine is one of them. At this point, I suspect keeping my lip zipped is about the smartest thing to do. Even if is bleeding from having to stay mute!
Thanks everyone for your feelings and perspective!
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