If you are experiencing pain at the front of your crotch (perineum), you might take a look at noseless saddles. I use two Adamos (Prologue) and one Cobb (Randee). All three have eliminated crotch pain and I can ride them all day in reasonable comfort.
No traditional saddle I have ever used in the 57 years I've been riding road bikes has equaled the comfort of these noseless saddles. Given my age, 74, I probably would not be riding now given how much more uncomfortable traditional saddles have become for me.
Joe