Abe, you could probably run 35 Gatorskins at 85 psi, and they'd be comfortable. I'm heavier than you, and my 32s are pretty decent.
Panaracer Pasela TG would be another option. If you can find them, they're made up to at least 35, and maybe 37-38. A little smoother than the Gatorskins, but not quite as resistant to flatting.