Originally Posted by
gerryl
This is sooo simple. Wait a year. That way every time you two have a disagreement, you can remind him of the sacrifices you made waiting for him for a whole year. You would be the best touring partner ever.
Sure, but I have no idea where I'll be in a year. I have a position offered to me that would span a year, starting when I return from the tour. After that, I don't know.
Plus, if I do find time to go on a big tour next summer, then I'd rather just go on two tours rather than skip a summer and wait.