Originally Posted by
Skipjacks
Were you there?
Do you know this person in my story?
Since the answer to both questions is 'no' why would you presume to know his intent?
I'm the only person in this thread who know the person I'm talking about. Therefor I'm the best authority in the thread on what his intent was. I've known the dude for 8 years. He's always being an obnoxious prick.
If it was friendly ribbing (It's ribbing, not elbowing) by the 50 some odd other people in my office who aren't 24/7 jerks I wouldn't have cared enough to mention it here.
You need to chill. You're the one who decided to come on here and talk about a co-worker behind their back, on a public forum. And being a public forum, people are going to comment, which I suspect is the underlying reason for you posting about it in the first place. You're looking for comments from people agreeing with you. But since it's a public forum, don't get mad when people don't agree with you, and call you out on this rather juvenile topic of discussion.